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Have you realized what the 'cool' kids are like in school? I think that should be answer enough.

Just do it..

You obviously like him for who he is! Don't have no second thoughts about it. That is my view; on a more serious note.

Girls often complain that the boy they with is stupid and immature and flirts with everyone etc. etc. most girls want a decent boyfriend who can comfort them through hard times and isn't going to use them. To me it sounds like you have found someone who has already helped you through a difficult time or two; you must be close so why not give a relationship a chance? You will never know if you don't try.

Hope this helped.

Forget about what everyone else is going to think. It's your life and if you want to be with him, be with him. If you can't get past the fact that he's 'uncool', then I don't think you should be in a relationship. You can't let what other people may think affect your decisions. Whether he's "cool" or "uncool" doesn't matter. What matters is how you feel about him and whether or not you want to be with him.

If you really have to stop and think about not dating him because he's not popular you're not worth him.

You don't have to either be dating or not. Just forget about labels and do what fits your situation and makes you happy.

amando96 wrote:

If you really have to stop and think about not dating him because he's not popular you're not worth him.

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Well think about it, what makes someone "cool" is because they do the "cool" thing, if that thing that makes you cool is being a jackass then would you then go out with him? When i think that someone is cool it is because there is a quality about them in my book that i think it cool. Yea my book, everyone got one and you aught to read it some time and figure out what are the things that you think are cool.

Now in a lot of schools people will 420 because it is the cool thing to do. Well i do it but because i like it and not because it is the cool thing to do, actually i don't think anyone knows. But if someone did it like me because they wanna do it and not because they are being pushed or wanna fell cool then they actually are cool in my book because they have a mind of there own.

you're questioning dating him because he isn't "cool"? no offense intended; but that sounds really shallow and dismal.

social status should not have anything to do with your relationship status. asking such just makes you sound like a person who would use someone's standing to up your own. accept the person for who they are, not where they stand.

I think it's quite obvious from what everyone else has said, that labels do not matter. But I understand what you are saying by how it may affect you.
You're vulnerable and that's normal. A lot of people care about that sort of thing, and it's not as easy as "I don't care what other people think" all the time. It can be accomplished though. If people do make fun, or judge, you just have to keep thinking of how the guy makes you feel. Does he make you happy? Do you to go well together? Just think about those answers. They should be what makes your decision.

And honestly, at my school, people don't really judge you for who you date all that much. If you just say to people how great the guy is, they respect your decision in being with them. It's not like you're different for who you go out with.

Just think about how you feel about him, and what you want for now. Think about how people will treat you if it happens. And if it does, like I said, just think about how you like it, and it should make you feel better about it all.