I guess everyone's opinions on this will be pretty different but mine is:
Sure, if you liked it, they why wouldn't it be okay? As long as your safe and he treats you well, then yeah. I would too if found someone like that.

Good sex is never a bad thing. :p

I don't think that is wrong, did it a couple of times myself and those there the best men I had in my whole life.

You're getting in a dangerous zone, 16 is legal where you are if I'm not mistaken, but like you said, it felt wrong, I'm not trying to be stereotypical but what does a 50 year old see in a 16 year old girl besides a hot body?

he'd missed the last bus

50 years old and no car, or shitty excuse to have sex with you.

My opinion: Stop it now, he clearly took advantage of you.

Yeah, that whole "missed the bus" thing is kinda shifty but like, I wouldn't really care.

Wow. I thought I knew you better than that.

I'm just saying, not the first time 50 year olds took advantage of 16 year olds for sex and in a latter date did bad things, 50 years old = mid life crisis, you should really avoid them, especially ones that basically rape you in your own bed, in your own house, because you felt sorry for him missing the bus...

That's like how old my dad is. Jeeeesus.

It sounds really bad to me. If it was me I would have loaned him money for a cab and sent him on his way. Just think how awkward it'll be going out in public with him with that age difference. I would end it if I were you.

That is so far beyond illegal.

Yes, that's awful, date people your own age.

Yeah, honestly. That's just weird. I think he took advantage of you, frankly. It's good that the sex was great, but that's not a reason to date someone that could be your father in terms of age.

I think it's fine that you're attracted to older guys, but that age difference is a bit much. I'm not saying it's wrong, because there are plenty of relationships that are like that and true. It's just this one that seems a little...

Now, let's have a good look at what happened.
-He invited you to meet him. Not too bad.
-You invited him in for coffee. That's kinda the sign that you want to have sex
-He kissed you. You guys just met, you said it felt wrong, but you liked it. Of course you did, that's how your body responds. There's nothing wrong with liking it, but it s
-The bus excuse. Well, that's where it should have been obvious of his intentions. He should have kept track of time better if this were true.
-He slept in your bed. He showed he was interested in you, but you still felt like it was wrong. You liked it because it felt good, there's no shame in that, but you didn't do what your mind was telling you, you let your body think for you. A lot of people do that.

Overall, looking over what happened, what each thing that happened means, this man is not really interested in you. As for your question, I don't think it was bad you did it because of his age. I just think it was bad because your brain was telling you no, and your body was telling you yes. And you gave in to your body.

Your brain was telling you something about him. Telling you that it wasn't right and that you shouldn't have done it. For the future, just be careful, and try to listen to what your mind is telling you rather than your urges.

God damnit we are gettin beat here men.
young guys lrn2fuck, we are gettin beat by grandpas?

I think it is a bit weird with the whole "he missed the bus" and you said yourself that it didn't feel right to start with, I would recommed getting to know him better and then considering whether or not to continue, there isn't anything wrong with you being interested in older men, you just should be careful that hes not taking advantage of you.

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLL.

troll.

Yes, this.

Wow you're dumb.

well, generally, most people aren't going to understand your feelings. and you seem pretty aware and not really minding the fact that the bus thing was sketchy. but if you liked it, and you would do it again; i don't see a problem with doing so. even if i was attracted to older guys, i wouldn't act on them. but the age difference is unrealistic, and i don't think it would be a great idea to simulate the situation on a frequent basis unless you're completely sure you want to. but just take note that a lot of people wouldn't naturally approve of it.



i don't see how intelligence is relevant. lol

oh my god lol

Im 100% sure that she is joking.