Yeah so I'm new to these forums, found it on google looking for advice. I just lurked for about an hour, but couldn't find anyone with a situation similar to mine.
Ok, so the situation: We have two groups of friends, a group of guys, then another of girls. Every now and then we all hang out together (often involving alcohol). There's this one girl all of my friends want me to get with, and her friends want the same. The only thing is we're both awkward and suck at small talk. I have no idea how to start a conversation with someone I'm not forced to talk to. We both know we like each other, and so does everyone else, but we just don't talk. I was thinking about trying to talk to her when we're all drunk, so that if it doesn't work out I can play it off as me acting like an idiot.
Any advice on how I can talk to her would be appreciated. Please don't say "Ask her for her number." Because I'm way too shy to do anything that drastic. Well thanks for anyone who gives any advice.
Ok, so the situation: We have two groups of friends, a group of guys, then another of girls. Every now and then we all hang out together (often involving alcohol). There's this one girl all of my friends want me to get with, and her friends want the same. The only thing is we're both awkward and suck at small talk. I have no idea how to start a conversation with someone I'm not forced to talk to. We both know we like each other, and so does everyone else, but we just don't talk. I was thinking about trying to talk to her when we're all drunk, so that if it doesn't work out I can play it off as me acting like an idiot.
Any advice on how I can talk to her would be appreciated. Please don't say "Ask her for her number." Because I'm way too shy to do anything that drastic. Well thanks for anyone who gives any advice.