It's difficult when you're in situations like this. You've got to decide what it is you really want. I'm in a similar position with my ex. We split up over a year ago and decided to meet up last weekend and we ended up having sex, trying to go with the 'friends with benefits, no strings attached' thing. However, it doesn't always go the way you plan, cos I'm left wanting more a feeling very confused cos I know a relationship won't work well with us, but we're both so sexually compatible, if you see what I mean.
It's difficult, but its something you're both going to have to decide about and maybe just see where things go.

id say do it just use protection !

Don't do it unless you really think you guys have a chance. Otherwise, friendship = gone.

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wat?

Just be careful because once you sleep with him, there's no going back. your relationship with him will forever be changed.

rmg132 wrote:

wat?

some guy up there took me and someone else's posts and combined them.

Huh? o.0

sex with best friends is awesome, i frequently get it on with my best guy friend and best girl friend. Idk we have a very safe and respectful understanding of eachother.

You guys all say that having sex could ruin their friendship... But have u ever thought haabout what these feelings could do in the long run?? If you guys keep feeling like you want to do it, you eventually will, otherwise you're just gonna have to stop being with each other, because it could become really annoying!! Your bodys will get the best of your minds after a while!!! I say just talk about it!!! Tell ur best friend what you told us, and they'll understand!!!! But judging by what you told us you both are having issues with your status your at right now...

Go for it.

just do it

if both of you want to, then go for it

GO FOR IT!
but havent you ever heard, guys and girls being best friends, and keeping it that way, is almost impossible!
someone ends up getting feelings for the other, in most cases