She constantly yells at me, mocks me, and insults me. She says things like how I "need to get a life", "be more like normal people", and "quit being such a ditz all the time".
Theses kind of things really hurt my feelings. I know you'll probably say to talk to her about it, but when I do, all she does is swear at me and insult me even more! She's also disrespected my sexual orientation by saying that the reason I'm not straight is because I'm mentally ill, or have been traumatized. And she yells at me and gets angry over small stuff:
Ex.:
We were leaving the airport when I asked whether we were going home first, or if we were going to go eat. She tells me in a very pissed-off tone that we're going to eat first. I then tell her that I was just curious, and ask why she had to get so angry. She then tells me that I shouldn't talk if I don't "really give a shit". I also once asked when she was going to be done with dinner because I wanted to take a walk. She answered, and I assumed that that would be enough time to take a walk and be back in time. As I'm going out the door, she yells at me for not finishing dinner!
And tonight, I asked if I could go somewhere with a friend and she mocked me about it! She's letting me go, but she thinks that it's stupid and that I shouldn't (it's a convention in town, by the way).
Is she going through menopause or something? I mean, CONSTANTLY angry with me. I don't know what to do... sometimes, I want to leave and go stay with a relative or a close friend for a while. But I'm too afraid of how she'll act if I leave. What do I do? I don't consider it verbal abuse (except for one occasion, where she spent an hour completely trashing me, my personality, and behaviour to my face)
Theses kind of things really hurt my feelings. I know you'll probably say to talk to her about it, but when I do, all she does is swear at me and insult me even more! She's also disrespected my sexual orientation by saying that the reason I'm not straight is because I'm mentally ill, or have been traumatized. And she yells at me and gets angry over small stuff:
Ex.:
We were leaving the airport when I asked whether we were going home first, or if we were going to go eat. She tells me in a very pissed-off tone that we're going to eat first. I then tell her that I was just curious, and ask why she had to get so angry. She then tells me that I shouldn't talk if I don't "really give a shit". I also once asked when she was going to be done with dinner because I wanted to take a walk. She answered, and I assumed that that would be enough time to take a walk and be back in time. As I'm going out the door, she yells at me for not finishing dinner!
And tonight, I asked if I could go somewhere with a friend and she mocked me about it! She's letting me go, but she thinks that it's stupid and that I shouldn't (it's a convention in town, by the way).
Is she going through menopause or something? I mean, CONSTANTLY angry with me. I don't know what to do... sometimes, I want to leave and go stay with a relative or a close friend for a while. But I'm too afraid of how she'll act if I leave. What do I do? I don't consider it verbal abuse (except for one occasion, where she spent an hour completely trashing me, my personality, and behaviour to my face)
