Okay, this isn't really anything serious, but I just need advice.
I was texting this guy I used to like (still a little bit do, but he broke my heart). He liked me too. We kissed... twice.
So yeah, I was texting him and out of nowhere he asks me if I told anyone we kissed. I lied and told him no. I told a few of my good friends.
I don't know why, but I don't want to tell him I told my friends because I feel embarrassed.

It's all in the past, right? I mean, there's no real point in telling him. He's in college now and I'm still a junior in high school. I still see him sometimes when he visits.

Kevmo7 wrote:

do you know why he wanted to know?

I asked him why he asked me and he just said that he was just wondering.

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Gooeyswat wrote:

I don't see a point in telling him if your embarrassed. If you feel guilty about lying to him about it and you're going to be concerned about whether or not you should tell him and it's going to get to you, then it's no big deal if you do tell him to get it off your chest. But overall, I don't see a point as you said.

Thanks, and I'm not the guilty type. XD

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Thanks for all your advice.

I did ask him why he asked me.
He told me he was just curious.
I wonder if he told anybody... O_o

Haha, chances are. The whole performing arts department knows about it.
News spreads like wildfire with our group. x__x

Ugh! Okay, I have a new problem with this guy!
I had this dream about him last night. It was just him and I in my bed all lovey dovey and what not. It was weird. Like, I didn't really expect it.
To be honest, I liked it. This dream fucked me up all day and I couldn't stop thinking about him. At one point, I just wanted to call him up and meet me at the park (We live pretty close) and just kiss him.
D:
But I can't.

Because he's probably forgotten about me and his thing for me because he's in college now.
Also, I don't want to be with him.
He's a flirt. He flirted with me even though he was still with his ex.

Kevmo7 wrote:

It depends, flirting isnt that much of a big deal, some people just have flirty personalitys

You dont know what he is thinking, your just imaging it, in a negative way, its one of the forms of distorted thinking, its called 'mind reading'

Aha. Thanks. You've been a lot of help.

louiebugooey wrote:

If he's not with anyone and you're okay for a hook-up then there's no issue with calling him up.
And dreaming about someone you like is pretty common. I know it's hard, but just don't think about it too much. Dreams aren't the future.

Thanks.