Hi there.
My boyfriend is really dirty and it makes me uncomfortable. I can't ever talk to him about anything without him turning whatever I say into some sort of sexual innuendo. I'm only fourteen so we haven't had sex (and I intend to keep it that way) but he's a few years older than me and apparently he hasn't been a virgin for a while now. I'm not uncomfortable with the idea of sex, but the things he says are really nasty and I don't know how to get him to stop. I really like him because he's funny and intelligent and charming, but the way he speaks is exactly how you'd expect a horribly unfiltered teenage boy's mind to sound. We could be talking to my grandma and he'd still find a way to slip in a few sexual comments in the conversation (whether Grandma picks up on them or not, I have no idea). I don't want to tell him that I don't like it because he was reluctant to go out with me in the first place because I'm so young, and I don't want to give him a reason to break up with me. I've tried talking dirty with him, which he seemed to like immensly, but it just made me sick to my stomach. Any advice?
Thanks
My boyfriend is really dirty and it makes me uncomfortable. I can't ever talk to him about anything without him turning whatever I say into some sort of sexual innuendo. I'm only fourteen so we haven't had sex (and I intend to keep it that way) but he's a few years older than me and apparently he hasn't been a virgin for a while now. I'm not uncomfortable with the idea of sex, but the things he says are really nasty and I don't know how to get him to stop. I really like him because he's funny and intelligent and charming, but the way he speaks is exactly how you'd expect a horribly unfiltered teenage boy's mind to sound. We could be talking to my grandma and he'd still find a way to slip in a few sexual comments in the conversation (whether Grandma picks up on them or not, I have no idea). I don't want to tell him that I don't like it because he was reluctant to go out with me in the first place because I'm so young, and I don't want to give him a reason to break up with me. I've tried talking dirty with him, which he seemed to like immensly, but it just made me sick to my stomach. Any advice?
Thanks