Okay, so..
Everytime I start talking to a girl, and eventually getting to like her, things will go brilliantly.. We'll get along great and I'll think about asking her out somewhere.
Then, when it actually comes to the time, I'll realise something could actually happen here, and a million reasons previously unthought of will flood my head about how it's a bad idea and why I shouldn't see them, and I'll eventually leave them alone.. Tends to leave them pretty pissed at me saying I just lead them on for funsies and whatever (which is fair enough, but I'm not trying to).
I keep telling myself ahh well, it'll be better next time, but it's not. I'll always back the fuck out, and I'm getting a reputation as being a dick because of it, and I'm not, I'm a dick for lots of other reasons
That's the main problem anyway, it's not that I'm nervous at all, I just end up thinking to myself things like 'ahh she's too far away and it'd be too much hassle' (that's actually the main culprit).
Then, the little side problem - you ever get that feeling that you know someone's starting to like you? Yeah, always seems to happen whenever I back out of it with someone else.. Almost like a rebound, but I really don't want that to happen either..
HALP!? Sort me out or whatever isi?
Everytime I start talking to a girl, and eventually getting to like her, things will go brilliantly.. We'll get along great and I'll think about asking her out somewhere.
Then, when it actually comes to the time, I'll realise something could actually happen here, and a million reasons previously unthought of will flood my head about how it's a bad idea and why I shouldn't see them, and I'll eventually leave them alone.. Tends to leave them pretty pissed at me saying I just lead them on for funsies and whatever (which is fair enough, but I'm not trying to).
I keep telling myself ahh well, it'll be better next time, but it's not. I'll always back the fuck out, and I'm getting a reputation as being a dick because of it, and I'm not, I'm a dick for lots of other reasons
That's the main problem anyway, it's not that I'm nervous at all, I just end up thinking to myself things like 'ahh she's too far away and it'd be too much hassle' (that's actually the main culprit).
Then, the little side problem - you ever get that feeling that you know someone's starting to like you? Yeah, always seems to happen whenever I back out of it with someone else.. Almost like a rebound, but I really don't want that to happen either..
HALP!? Sort me out or whatever isi?