it would be a very big thing to hold in so letting it out would be a weight off your shoulders

BUT

it could destroy the relationship on the other hand

I guess its really a personal decision

If you want to do it and you don't think it will jeopardize the relationship, go for it.
She's in another country so even if she doesn't return your feelings it's not like you have to see her every day. It should blow over. And, you'll never know what she thinks unless you say anything. It'll make you feel a lot better - you won't have to hold onto it and let it burden you any more.

See if she tastes like chocolate

dusk wrote:

See if she tastes like chocolate

what? lol

Do you only know her through Facebook or is she a friend who moved away? A Facebook relationship will never be real and will never be healthy.

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thats toughhh. i mean even if she does feel the same way you guys would have to have a long distance relationship, but i think there would be some satisfaction in just letting it all out and getting it off your chest, hopefully it wont ruin your relationship!:) x

1) Yay for blanket generalisations. Absolutely there could never, EVER be an exception to that rule. OH WAIT. My friend's parents met online and now are happily married. Awww, awkward.
2) She said the girl is straight, so obviously they're not gonna have an online relationship.
3) To the OP, I would say that telling her will make you feel better. And it wouldn't be fair of her to treat you any differently because of that. Either she wouldn't or she would and isn't worth your love anyway.

~Maggot

Kevmo7 wrote:

what? lol

Krasseevaya wrote:

I kissed my best friend.

But she was high, and just wanted to see if she tasted like chocolate cake.

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maybe just hint at it for a while first and just see what she does, that might be a good little step inbetween telling her