There is a boy in school which really effeminate and everybody says he is gay. Are there effeminate guys who are straight? To be gay you don't need to be effeminate so why do most people relate them? :confused:
Effeminate = gay?
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Because men usually like women, and men are usually manly, so peoples minds tell them that if one is different the other is too. But yeah I've met a couple guys that were kind of womanly who were straight(although it was more... rapisty too, just sayin')[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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Hmm, well yes there are definitely effeminate straight men haha.
There are those who act so gay you'd think they are, but aren't. Look up metrosexual. =P -
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@hipster
Yeah, but being the stereotypical gay and being straight is just as obnoxious as being the stereotypical gay and being it. People obviously shouldn't judge before they know... but yeah.. its just as annoying. >__< No offense to anyone, just the overactive effeminate, dare I say, "flaming" attitude is quite obnoxious... but I'm getting off topic.
And you say he's effeminate, any other details lead you to think he'd be gay??? Gaydar always works too. =PThe post was edited 2 times, last by Makoto ().
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Makoto wrote:
@hipster
Yeah, but being the stereotypical gay and being straight is just as obnoxious as being the stereotypical gay and being it. People obviously shouldn't judge before they know... but yeah.. its just as annoying. >__< No offense to anyone, just the overactive effeminate, dare I say, "flaming" attitude is quite obnoxious... but I'm getting off topic.
And you say he's effeminate, any other details lead you to think he'd be gay??? Gaydar always works too. =P
i never said it wasn't obnoxious, over-feminine guys usually bother me as well. i'm just saying, it doesn't mean he's gay. -
Hah, yes it is. And well I guess we can just sit and ponder until OP responds. =P
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unfortunately the stereotype of gay guys is that they are very effeminate. he probably is gay but who knows...
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Yeah the ignorant stereotype... just like all asians smell like garlic. Germans are evil. Only a-rabs work at 7/11. Black people love fried chicken and a majority of hiv vectors are homosexual when it's actually black females.... <__< yeah stereotypes are dumb. -
hipster wrote:
i never said it wasn't obnoxious, over-feminine guys usually bother me as well. i'm just saying, it doesn't mean he's gay.
Do you know an over-feminine gay guy I can chat with on MSN?I give cam shows every now and then, but I MUST know you and be comfortable with you before I will do them for you! If interested, contact me and get to know me! -
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Im a bit effeminate, but I'm not gay :p
(Despite what LJ tells you :nono:)
Like i hang out with girls a bit, so i guess it's rubbed off on me,
I'm straight though
Also, look at David Walliams, he's engaged/married, cant mind which ><[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC][/CENTER] -
Thanks :wink:
He sometimes talks about topics like Justin Bieber, and they say he once said he thought a boy was hot, but he also talks about ice hockey, girls, etc.
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What is the difference between ice hockey and hockey?I give cam shows every now and then, but I MUST know you and be comfortable with you before I will do them for you! If interested, contact me and get to know me!
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Aleksandr wrote:
What is the difference between ice hockey and hockey?
Ice hockey's on ice.
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He sounds like he could be bicurious but merely acting feminine doesn't make him anything. Everyone has a unique personality
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