On Saturday I got really really drunk and told my boyfriend that I love him. I don't remember how he reacted and now I'm dreading seeing him again. What should I do about it?
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if anything he was probably too drunk to remember as well, and if it bothered him he would have brought it up or acted differently, but seeing as your not sure you may as well ask...[CENTER]Some people think I'm crazy, others think that duck's better than chicken (:
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Well firstly, you should have prevented it in the first place. I always tell people not to drink, and the drinkers always say, "Oh, no, it's perfectly fine, nothing bad happens to you." And then they go and do stupid stuff like this.
You have to be honest with him. It was your fault for losing your bearings on the situation, so you have to tell him that. He might be angry with you, but you must explain what happened and why you said it. He might forgive you, he might even be relieved if he doesn't love you back; but there's also the chance that he will be angry about it if he does love you.Golden Enterprises, Inc. - CEO
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It's not that I don't love him, I just wasn't planning on telling him in case he doesn't say it back.
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Well then you will have to tell him that as well, since you let it slip. If you tell him that it came out because you were drunk, then he will inevitably ask if you meant it or not. Be honest, and tell him the truth. You have to talk to him about it because it's wrong to ignore it and act like it never happened when it involves something as serious as love.Golden Enterprises, Inc. - CEO
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He hasn't brought it up yet, I'm just worried he might when we actually see each other.
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Well you could try to be casual about it and ask if you did anything weird while you were drunk. That makes you look suspicious, though, especially if he doesn't remember the event.Golden Enterprises, Inc. - CEO
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Tell him that you love him one more time, to see how his reaction was or would be! There's nothing wrong saying it.. though I don't think he even remembers it, weren't you both drunk?
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Nitrat wrote:
Tell him that you love him one more time, to see how his reaction was or would be! There's nothing wrong saying it.. though I don't think he even remembers it, weren't you both drunk?
You can't blatantly assume that it's okay to say "I love you." Generally, while it may not seem like it should, it is very much dependent on the length of the relationship. Of course, the biggest factors are how well you know someone and the feelings you have for that person, but if you say "I love you" too soon in a relationship, the creepy/awkward levels shoot way up and it could push that person away.Golden Enterprises, Inc. - CEO
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Nitrat wrote:
Tell him that you love him one more time, to see how his reaction was or would be! There's nothing wrong saying it.. though I don't think he even remembers it, weren't you both drunk?
I don't think he was that drunk, he was sober enough to carry me. -
Well he's obviously gonna know you were drunk at the time, so he'll just think "Awh she was drunk sooo, yeah".
Why not say to him "Hey, umm, do you remember when i got drunk and told you i loved you? Well, i just wanted you to know that even though i was drunk.. i meant it :rolleyes:"[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC][/CENTER]
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