Girlfriend not sexually fulfilled, what do I do?

    • Girlfriend not sexually fulfilled, what do I do?

      I ’m a 18 year old male, I have a very low sperm count and most times I’ll fail to reach erection so in other words I have a sexual dysfunction. Never been able to climax don’t know what an orgasm feels like, have had vaginal intercourse and anal...hardly feel any sensation my doctor has me on hormone pills and all they do is give me bad stomach aches and headaches....with that in mind

      My girlfriend isn’t satisfied with oral and clitoris stimulation she wants penetration but I can’t get an erection (not that I’ve ever been sexually satisfied myself but I have a medical condition she doesn’t) Should I just please her with sex toys OR allow her to intercourse with other men for her own sexual satisfaction? :(

    • Re: Girlfriend not sexually fulfilled, what do I do?

      JP_588 wrote:

      I ’m a 18 year old male, I have a very low sperm count and most times I’ll fail to reach erection so in other words I have a sexual dysfunction. Never been able to climax don’t know what an orgasm feels like, have had vaginal intercourse and anal...hardly feel any sensation my doctor has me on hormone pills and all they do is give me bad stomach aches and headaches....with that in mind

      My girlfriend isn’t satisfied with oral and clitoris stimulation she wants penetration but I can’t get an erection (not that I’ve ever been sexually satisfied myself but I have a medical condition she doesn’t) Should I just please her with sex toys OR allow her to intercourse with other men for her own sexual satisfaction? :(


      Whoa! Dude, what is wrong with you? Okay. I am not a Medical Doctor, so I can not "pretend" to advise you something in relations to your health. But sexually, I can advise you to lick her pussy like you have never licked it before. Lick her ass like you sucking on some vanilla milkshake out that ass. I read you tried, but finger her. Be a little more aggressive. I mean, not to offend you, but are you gay? Bi-sexual? Do you get aroused with gay porn?

      Go to some real porn sites and see what you get aroused to. And if that first part fails, go with toys. But do not have her have sex with other guys, unless you don't wanna be with her. And last thing, you guys in New York?

    • Re: Girlfriend not sexually fulfilled, what do I do?

      @ Anti Condoms: Dude did you read properly, I have a sexual dysfunction meaning I have a medical problem. There's something wrong with not only my prostate but my testes. As for licking her vagina I also mentioned we engaged in Oral sex :P She wants penetration however

      But your post was funny haha, made me laugh :wink:

    • Re: Girlfriend not sexually fulfilled, what do I do?

      JP_588 wrote:

      @ Anti Condoms: Dude did you read properly, I have a sexual dysfunction meaning I have a medical problem. There's something wrong with not only my prostate but my testes. As for licking her vagina I also mentioned we engaged in Oral sex :P She wants penetration however

      But your post was funny haha, made me laugh :wink:


      Then basically, what you are saying is, your dick is broken. Until you get that fixed, you will need to be single dude. Cuz you can't tell your girl, yeah go fuck other dudes and I'll buy you flowers, food and shit.

    • Re: Girlfriend not sexually fulfilled, what do I do?

      JP_588 wrote:

      I ’m a 18 year old male, I have a very low sperm count and most times I’ll fail to reach erection so in other words I have a sexual dysfunction. Never been able to climax don’t know what an orgasm feels like, have had vaginal intercourse and anal...hardly feel any sensation my doctor has me on hormone pills and all they do is give me bad stomach aches and headaches....with that in mind

      My girlfriend isn’t satisfied with oral and clitoris stimulation she wants penetration but I can’t get an erection (not that I’ve ever been sexually satisfied myself but I have a medical condition she doesn’t) Should I just please her with sex toys OR allow her to intercourse with other men for her own sexual satisfaction? :(



      oh my.....


      Well going with another man will NOT be the answer.
      for ether of you.... (<- just for the "lol"s [no offence intended cuz I don't know your sexuality])


      it kind of depends what she wants, however; if she wants to have sex with another guy... that just doesn't seem right (to me).

      have you told her about your condition?
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    • Re: Girlfriend not sexually fulfilled, what do I do?

      Hitman wrote:

      dude usein tows on girls rock lol u can geep them going till they cant move anymore its fun as hell my girl loves it when i use toys on her


      She's really difficult, sometimes the toys work for her other times she demands intercourse, something I obv do a poor job at. LoL :mad:

    • Re: Girlfriend not sexually fulfilled, what do I do?

      You can combine oral sex with a toy you know. Ask her what she wants, thats the best way to go about it. You can guess left and right but she will know what stimulates her better than anyone else, ever.
      Try different things (obviously). When you give her oral sex, put 2 fingers in and press up, The g-spot is there, works magic. Talk about it, that way you will see how much she likes you as well based on how hard she is willing to work to work this out, know what I mean?
      There are many alternatives, just gonna be a bit of research on this, is all.

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      ps: sorry forgot to ask a key point. what exactly is you medical condition (sorry if it was mentioned, I missed it then)
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