Ok me and this girl are really close, we flirt a ton and we've even kissed, but she has a bf and we know what we have done is wrong, her bf doesn't know any of this and their relationship has been on the rocks for awhile, only reason she's with him is because she "doesnt want to be the one to break up with him and hurt him"...and the fact that he doesn't want the relationship to end...
shes worried if she leaves him he'll get really depressed and hurt himself
...yes i really like her and she really likes me too i've told her how i feel about her and she accepts it but won't tell me how she feels because she believe it's inappropriate due to the fact shes got a bf...so now shes told me that she doesn't think her relationship with him is going to last very long but she doesn't want to leave him untill he gets a job and is stable with his life...which i think is very caring of her and i can't exactly say anything against it because i don't know what the guy has been through...
I have really strongs feelings for this girl and i think she does for me too...if im honest she even sees me more times a week than her bf...so this leaves me messed up inside and in my head because i really care about her but am i just wasting my time ? I mean im always going to be second best right ?..can i get some other people opinions on my situation please and maybe some advice because im getting kinda down because the more i see her the more deeper my feelings get for her...thanks.
shes worried if she leaves him he'll get really depressed and hurt himself
...yes i really like her and she really likes me too i've told her how i feel about her and she accepts it but won't tell me how she feels because she believe it's inappropriate due to the fact shes got a bf...so now shes told me that she doesn't think her relationship with him is going to last very long but she doesn't want to leave him untill he gets a job and is stable with his life...which i think is very caring of her and i can't exactly say anything against it because i don't know what the guy has been through...
I have really strongs feelings for this girl and i think she does for me too...if im honest she even sees me more times a week than her bf...so this leaves me messed up inside and in my head because i really care about her but am i just wasting my time ? I mean im always going to be second best right ?..can i get some other people opinions on my situation please and maybe some advice because im getting kinda down because the more i see her the more deeper my feelings get for her...thanks.