I was planning to ask somebody to an upcoming dance, but now found out they are taken. Due to a bit of carelessness on my part, most of my friends learned about this. I want to ask one of them, but I know asking somebody as a "second" option is considered disrespectful. Because of this can I ask out my friend without it being weird?
Asking somebody else out?
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I don't think you can tbh, you'll look like kind of a dick, but if you go for it, just be real.[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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neji49 wrote:
I was planning to ask somebody to an upcoming dance, but now found out they are taken. Due to a bit of carelessness on my part, most of my friends learned about this. I want to ask one of them, but I know asking somebody as a "second" option is considered disrespectful. Because of this can I ask out my friend without it being weird?
Obviously you can't ask the prize. So just go for the second place. BUT, if you are going to ask her, ask yourself just these 2 questions. Do you want the second prize as a girlfriend? Or just a partner at the dance?
If the answer is to have her as a girlfriend, you are going to have to lie to her and say, I wanted to ask you at first, but then a couple of friends told me that you had no interest in me, so I decided to just bite the dust. And so on..................
If the answer is, just a partner to dance with, then just ask her to the dance, as friends. Be honest. -
Will definately be awkard.
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Unfortunately you can't, seeing as they know. But there's no harm in trying.
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ANTI CONDOM wrote:
you are going to have to lie to her
Be honest.
lolWUT
And...yeah I agree with what everyone else said.Golden Enterprises, Inc. - CEO
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artizhay wrote:
lolWUT
And...yeah I agree with what everyone else said.
Try reading the whole thing. :rofl: You get PWNed by yourself. :rofl: -
ANTI CONDOM wrote:
Try reading the whole thing. :rofl: You get PWNed by yourself. :rofl:
One's moral obligation to be honest should not be dictated by the conditions of a situation.Golden Enterprises, Inc. - CEO
Iconiplex, LLC - Managing Member
Emerald Summit Capital Group, LLC - President
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