One question which determines all- are you sexually attracted to him and/or other males?

How long have you considered yourself gay or bisexual, or do you not consider yourself as either? Do you believe that you have an attraction towards men (or certain men, or just this one guy), but you might also feel like what you're doing is wrong? I'm not saying that what you feel is wrong, but the societal and familial pressures you feel in having feelings for another guy. Seriously think to yourself, when you're having second thoughts: is it for your sake that you feel you might regret it, or is it because you're afraid to let down family or friends, or to make them dislike you because of it?

Why do you question yourself? If you enjoy talking to him there is no harm in that. Maybe you don't wanna be together. That's fine. Maybe in the future you could go down that road. For now, just enjoy his company. It's ok to be confused. We all go through it. In fact, I'm going through it right now. You don't need to feel ashamed.

It always helps to talk it out.

he makes you feel like your in heaven you think he's sweet and kind and you love his smile . . . and im willing to bet just hearing his name puts a smile on your face So what if he's a guy? It's the feelings that count right? I mean sometimes personalities can really just make you fall for a person regardless of what gender they are.