Me and my girlfriend are both 19 and have been together for about 6 months, a few years back we were really close friends before she moved away. Then, a year ago she got in contact with me and said she was going to be attending the university in my city.
So we met, had lunch and continued to talk and our relationship started from where it left of and developed into a full blown girlfriend/boyfriend situation. For the first two months we stuck with making out, but then moved onto handjobs/fingering before blowjobs/licking at about 4 months. We are really happy with this and love to be able to pleasure each other this way.
Well, a couple of weeks ago we were making out and she asked me if I wanted to have sex with her. We're both virgins but after making sure this was what she wanted, I agreed. Unfortunately I was very nervous and couldn't keep my erection up when putting the condom on. She reassured me it was fine and she didn't care that we didn't do it, still I felt really down and depressed about it, feeling inadequate etc. Well for the next week and a half we just stuck to making out etc. A couple of days ago she asked me if I wanted to try it because she knew I had some condoms with me. I said yes determined to actually do it this time. I managed to get hard and put the condom on this time which I was pleased at, but I was unable to penetrate. Having bugger all experience of girls apart from with her, I'm pretty useless when it comes to this sort of thing. She lay down and I got ontop but I was unable to find the entrance to the vagina. She tried to help but I ended up going soft because I felt nervous and depressed about not being able to do it.
So, now I've been feeling depressed ever since. I've failed at having sex twice with the one person who means everything to me and it makes me feel like shit. I know I'm able to pleasure her with fingering etc but I want to be able to do this with her.
I came on here to ask for advice, because asking friends seems to embarrassing. If anyone has any ideas concerning how I could overcome my nervousness and actually make this any easier, it would be much appreciated.
Thanks.
So we met, had lunch and continued to talk and our relationship started from where it left of and developed into a full blown girlfriend/boyfriend situation. For the first two months we stuck with making out, but then moved onto handjobs/fingering before blowjobs/licking at about 4 months. We are really happy with this and love to be able to pleasure each other this way.
Well, a couple of weeks ago we were making out and she asked me if I wanted to have sex with her. We're both virgins but after making sure this was what she wanted, I agreed. Unfortunately I was very nervous and couldn't keep my erection up when putting the condom on. She reassured me it was fine and she didn't care that we didn't do it, still I felt really down and depressed about it, feeling inadequate etc. Well for the next week and a half we just stuck to making out etc. A couple of days ago she asked me if I wanted to try it because she knew I had some condoms with me. I said yes determined to actually do it this time. I managed to get hard and put the condom on this time which I was pleased at, but I was unable to penetrate. Having bugger all experience of girls apart from with her, I'm pretty useless when it comes to this sort of thing. She lay down and I got ontop but I was unable to find the entrance to the vagina. She tried to help but I ended up going soft because I felt nervous and depressed about not being able to do it.
So, now I've been feeling depressed ever since. I've failed at having sex twice with the one person who means everything to me and it makes me feel like shit. I know I'm able to pleasure her with fingering etc but I want to be able to do this with her.
I came on here to ask for advice, because asking friends seems to embarrassing. If anyone has any ideas concerning how I could overcome my nervousness and actually make this any easier, it would be much appreciated.
Thanks.