is she too young??

Taylor227 · Oct 18th 2010, 6:33am

I know your thinking well if you have to ask that then they are too young. I am turning 18 in feb. and this girl in my french class which is a freshman, just turned 14. We always talk during class and shes really pretty, never had a boyfriend, doesnt drink or anything, and that is just who i am looking for. One of my buddies dated a freshman and he was almost 19 and she was 14/15...im also scared that when i turn 18, even though we wont do anything, if ill get in trouble. what do yall think?

*im not interested in sex!!!*

lava-czech · Oct 18th 2010, 8:02am

MM...that is a tough one. It all depends. You said you weren't interested in sex but you have to know that if your relationship gets serious I'm sure she'll start thinking about it. Not to mention just kissing will make people think something is wrong there. You would also have to think about her parents. If I had a daughter I would kick her ass if she started going out with a senior. Anyways I think you should seriously think long and hard about whether you want to take the risk and ask her out on a date.

p.s. You should probably look up the legal age of consent in your state to make sure you won't be breaking any laws if you start gettting serious.

username #88 · Oct 18th 2010, 8:09am

Taylor227 wrote:

I know your thinking well if you have to ask that then they are too young. I am turning 18 in feb. and this girl in my french class which is a freshman, just turned 14. We always talk during class and shes really pretty, never had a boyfriend, doesnt drink or anything, and that is just who i am looking for. One of my buddies dated a freshman and he was almost 19 and she was 14/15...im also scared that when i turn 18, even though we wont do anything, if ill get in trouble. what do yall think?

*im not interested in sex!!!*

Yes, she is too young. What the hell is your problem? If you had to ask, then I'm sorry, but I have to say, you have serious issues. Of course she never had a boyfriend and of course she never drank, she was 12 and she loved dolls a few months ago! You well know that you "say" you are not gonna do anything, but you want to do something, BECAUSE YOU WOULDN'T HAVE ASKED THIS QUESTION. And you are even giving an example of another friend who dated a baby. You could still talk to her, but you obviously want something more than that, so don't bullshit a bullshitter. Why can't guys like you find seniors in school? Same age?

Taylor227 · Oct 18th 2010, 8:42pm

ANTI CONDOM wrote:

Yes, she is too young. What the hell is your problem? If you had to ask, then I'm sorry, but I have to say, you have serious issues. Of course she never had a boyfriend and of course she never drank, she was 12 and she loved dolls a few months ago! You well know that you "say" you are not gonna do anything, but you want to do something, BECAUSE YOU WOULDN'T HAVE ASKED THIS QUESTION. And you are even giving an example of another friend who dated a baby. You could still talk to her, but you obviously want something more than that, so don't bullshit a bullshitter. Why can't guys like you find seniors in school? Same age?

i cant ask seniors b/c they are all people who i wouldnt want to date. pretty plain and simple there. thanks for your opinion

username #88 · Oct 18th 2010, 9:25pm

Taylor227 wrote:

i cant ask seniors b/c they are all people who i wouldnt want to date. pretty plain and simple there. thanks for your opinion

You're welcome. But from all the seniors in your school, one of them has to be interesting.

muluk · Oct 18th 2010, 9:38pm

she's too young mann, this is disgusting

Raoul_Foil_Duke · Oct 18th 2010, 9:40pm

Taylor227 wrote:

i cant ask seniors b/c they are all people who i wouldnt want to date. pretty plain and simple there. thanks for your opinion

How about juniors and sophomores?

Taylor227 · Oct 18th 2010, 10:02pm

so its disgusting for my parents to be together then right? since they are 5 years apart

Raoul_Foil_Duke · Oct 18th 2010, 10:05pm

5 years is less significant between people who are say 40 and 45 than between 17 and 12. Let's see. One is on the verge of being a voter and legal adult, and the other is learning how to use tampons and might still get to go to recess...

outsider · Oct 19th 2010, 1:02am

Is she too young - YES - Maturity difference is huge, at least I hope so...

And..
Also consider your state or nation's laws. Here in California Age of Consent is 18, so having sex with someone younger would be considered statutory rape. A two years' age difference would make you guilty of a misdemeanor, which carries lesser penalties than say a three years difference, when it would be a felony. Also, anyone can report a statutory rape - teacher, neighbor, whoever. And here in CA being found guilty could entail having to register as a sex offender.

Even though you are not interested in having sex - anyone can falsely report you having sex and then you will have a uphill battle to proving your innocence. Save yourself the trouble and date closer to your age. Or go older

find a cougar when you turn 18.

Be careful.;)

BodyBuilder · Oct 19th 2010, 1:32am

Screw what other people think. Do what you gotta do man. If it's datin a freshman, then go for it. It's your choice!

username #88 · Oct 19th 2010, 8:20am

Taylor227 wrote:

so its disgusting for my parents to be together then right? since they are 5 years apart

More proof that you want to do more than just talk.

FallenAngel · Oct 20th 2010, 4:43am

'Even though we won't do anything, I'll get in trouble'

?

Well, it seems to me that you want to do something.

I think you should find a junior instead.

Treebark2268 · Oct 20th 2010, 4:55am

Its risky, your right on the cusp of no-no territory.. There was one or two seniors at my HS that dated freshman..

Baffz · Oct 20th 2010, 5:07am

Don't be a diaper sniper!

edit: 100th post!

Mama Bear · Oct 20th 2010, 5:09am

Eh it's your perogative...
but don't rob the cradle! XD

redno · Oct 20th 2010, 5:47am

If you don't want to do anything, just be her friend, it's the exact same.

Starfish · Oct 20th 2010, 5:58am

Dude. I would just move on. If it's mean't to be, it will be. I'm sure there is a girl closer to your age though, that fits your criteria. You just have to be patient and let that person find you.

Taylor227 · Oct 21st 2010, 4:19am

living in a small town with a small school its hard to find someone interesting. havent had a gf since 8th grade. and i would say shes pretty mature. friends in my class say i should have asked her to homecoming then get on here and everyone is against me.

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FakePlasticTrees wrote:

Dude. I would just move on. If it's mean't to be, it will be. I'm sure there is a girl closer to your age though, that fits your criteria. You just have to be patient and let that person find you.

thank you for the response.

Fashion · Oct 21st 2010, 4:21am

Well, if two people love each other whys shouldn't they have sex?
On the other hand of coiurse she is very young, and if you want to date so much you surely could wait til she's a little older for sex.

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