hey guys this is my first ever post here me new :cool:
am i being a selfish bitch?
I gotta tell my friend how it is. Ive been friends with her for six years now. and we've been through A LOT. She can tell when i'm lying and i can usually read her like an open book, that being said there's still a lot of stuff i think we both aren't willing to share with each other , probably me more than her.
But OMG is she irritating the fuck outta me. She's been known to be clingy and i've told her in the past, and she backed off a bit. And she's easily offened and gets depressed quickly. She needs that attention all the time.
Anyway when I'm talking to her on three way with another friend of ours. she never lets us forget how we go places without her and how we abondoned her or forgot her. I mean she'll totally repeat it throughout the whole convo. (it's not like i said lets ditch her, but she's busy a lot . . . she wants me to reschelude everytime she can't make it)
And then the times when she is free and i plan something with a group of us she always has a probably with one of them and complains. So then i try to make separate plans so there won't be any conflict and she still bitches.
She makes plans with our friends without telling me, i don't bitch. I don't even think of it in a negative way. so why when i do, all hell breaks loss?
IDK how to tell her, because i know she'll blow things outta proportion and turn things around to make it seem like she's a being attacked.
am i being a selfish bitch?
I gotta tell my friend how it is. Ive been friends with her for six years now. and we've been through A LOT. She can tell when i'm lying and i can usually read her like an open book, that being said there's still a lot of stuff i think we both aren't willing to share with each other , probably me more than her.
But OMG is she irritating the fuck outta me. She's been known to be clingy and i've told her in the past, and she backed off a bit. And she's easily offened and gets depressed quickly. She needs that attention all the time.
Anyway when I'm talking to her on three way with another friend of ours. she never lets us forget how we go places without her and how we abondoned her or forgot her. I mean she'll totally repeat it throughout the whole convo. (it's not like i said lets ditch her, but she's busy a lot . . . she wants me to reschelude everytime she can't make it)
And then the times when she is free and i plan something with a group of us she always has a probably with one of them and complains. So then i try to make separate plans so there won't be any conflict and she still bitches.
She makes plans with our friends without telling me, i don't bitch. I don't even think of it in a negative way. so why when i do, all hell breaks loss?
IDK how to tell her, because i know she'll blow things outta proportion and turn things around to make it seem like she's a being attacked.