So, recently I started living with my BF. At first all was great, even better than I expected (because it was forst time that any of us was living with partner). We had sex every day, and all other aspects of every day life were really good.
Then, after some time we started little fight about something, and didn't have sex for few days. Then all was OK again but we somehow started working a lot, not having time.... Also this crazy december, too much guests and dinners and lunches we didn't have time for eachother at all. Also, he's very nervous last few weeks, worried about his job.... We barely even talk, kiss maybe every few days. He goes to sleep really late, I get up early. We didn't have sex for at least 20 days and he doesn't show any signs he want to do it.
At first I wasn't bothered but now I started thinking something is wrong, with him or with me, or that I did something, or that he's bored.
Idk.
I asked what is wrong, why he's in such a bad mood - he said he is not, that he's only tired.
But still....
I'm becoming really sad (and frustrated too).
I don't want to pressure him, or expect him to have sex with me because he respect wehn I'm not in the mood.
Idk, is it normal for long term couples or what?
I don't want to have sex only 1 or 2 times per month!
Then, after some time we started little fight about something, and didn't have sex for few days. Then all was OK again but we somehow started working a lot, not having time.... Also this crazy december, too much guests and dinners and lunches we didn't have time for eachother at all. Also, he's very nervous last few weeks, worried about his job.... We barely even talk, kiss maybe every few days. He goes to sleep really late, I get up early. We didn't have sex for at least 20 days and he doesn't show any signs he want to do it.
At first I wasn't bothered but now I started thinking something is wrong, with him or with me, or that I did something, or that he's bored.
Idk.
I asked what is wrong, why he's in such a bad mood - he said he is not, that he's only tired.
But still....
I'm becoming really sad (and frustrated too).
I don't want to pressure him, or expect him to have sex with me because he respect wehn I'm not in the mood.
Idk, is it normal for long term couples or what?
I don't want to have sex only 1 or 2 times per month!