your first time with same sex?

  • I read the beginning of this thread where people talked about kissing, romance and relationships with the same sex, then there is this:

    BenP07 wrote:

    the only thing I've done with someone of the same sex was with my best friend at the time. we were camping in my backyard for my birthday, ended up talking about sexy stuff. long story short we ended up jerking off together / jerking each other off.

    tame compared to most stuff on this thread, but it's the only thing thats ever made me question my sexuality.
    which is much more like my own experience and highlights, for me, why labels are only really an approximation.

    So the first thing I did with another boy was to jerk off together and watch each other. There was also no pretence. We didn't put on straight porn and pretend to watch, so that could be an excuse for getting hard. We both understood that arousal came from a mixture of just being horny and needing to get off and from watching each other.

    Next, with a different boy, we masturbated each other and made each other cum. After that we tried some frot, i.e. lying on a bed together and humping against each other until we had each cum. We only did the frot once but wanked each other off quite a few times.

    And that's it. No blow jobs, no penetration. I have gone all the way with a girl more than once and loved it each time but that experience hasn't made me think the experience with other boys was just a combination of a development phase and circumstances. I really enjoyed what I have done with other guys and I know, if I had the opportunity, I would still really enjoy it.

  • first experience was with my best friend at the time. I was 10 and he was 11 or 12. He stayed the night and at some point we played truth or dare and it definitely went risky quick lol. Ended up in jerking and bjs. First time actually having sex, I was 12 and kinda got persuaded/manipulated by an older boy in the neighborhood that I looked up to. It turned out good tho...not what I expected but I'd say it was a good experience.

  • trey_c wrote:

    first experience was with my best friend at the time. I was 10 and he was 11 or 12. He stayed the night and at some point we played truth or dare and it definitely went risky quick lol. Ended up in jerking and bjs. First time actually having sex, I was 12 and kinda got persuaded/manipulated by an older boy in the neighborhood that I looked up to. It turned out good tho...not what I expected but I'd say it was a good experience.
    Good experience i bet you liked it :D