Okay, so I started going out with this guy I met at the community college we both go to. I'm 18, he's 25. My therapist has said that that age gap is weird and he was only in it for sex. So anyway we started going out, i didn't put out right away, and he kept coming to see me and take me out on dates even though we live like 45 minutes apart, so I thought he must have some good in him if he's not getting anyway and putting forth this much effort.
So we've been together for like a little over a month now, and we got in our first fight last week about how he takes forever to do stuff and is always late. He was going to come spend the night at my house after being at the hospital since it's close to my place. Not to mention he was at the hospital because his infant son got a high fever when the baby was with the mom. Either way, he says he'll be here soon, and I wait up for him at like 4 am for an hour, so I just got annoyed and was like what the hell it doesn't take this long to get here, and he just snapped and said fine I'll sleep in my car. Last I heard from him until the next day when he finally talks to me on facebook late in the evening. He comes to my house, we work it out, I apologize for being impatient.
That last time we made up was the last time ive spoken to him in person. Since then all week we've talked on the phone once for like 5 minutes. He said he got off class at 9:30 p.m. and we could hang out then. so I call him at like 9:40, no answer, 9:50, no answer, 10:00, no answer. I texted him saying I know you hate being on the phone and I'm sorry for calling you so many times but why are you ignoring me?
That's the last thing I've said to him. Before, when we had that fight, he did the same thing, he just ignored me. But this time around nothing bad had happened. I feel like he's just uninterested or there's another girl. I really don't want to break up with him but if this is going to be a cycle I don't think I can deal with it. Before all this, we used to text and talk on the phone allll day. Then it just stopped.
Please tell me what you think
So we've been together for like a little over a month now, and we got in our first fight last week about how he takes forever to do stuff and is always late. He was going to come spend the night at my house after being at the hospital since it's close to my place. Not to mention he was at the hospital because his infant son got a high fever when the baby was with the mom. Either way, he says he'll be here soon, and I wait up for him at like 4 am for an hour, so I just got annoyed and was like what the hell it doesn't take this long to get here, and he just snapped and said fine I'll sleep in my car. Last I heard from him until the next day when he finally talks to me on facebook late in the evening. He comes to my house, we work it out, I apologize for being impatient.
That last time we made up was the last time ive spoken to him in person. Since then all week we've talked on the phone once for like 5 minutes. He said he got off class at 9:30 p.m. and we could hang out then. so I call him at like 9:40, no answer, 9:50, no answer, 10:00, no answer. I texted him saying I know you hate being on the phone and I'm sorry for calling you so many times but why are you ignoring me?
That's the last thing I've said to him. Before, when we had that fight, he did the same thing, he just ignored me. But this time around nothing bad had happened. I feel like he's just uninterested or there's another girl. I really don't want to break up with him but if this is going to be a cycle I don't think I can deal with it. Before all this, we used to text and talk on the phone allll day. Then it just stopped.
Please tell me what you think
