Ok, so this is gonna be VERY strange. Just as a fore-warning.
Some about me: I'm just about to finish 8th grade. Im 14. I'm kinda chibby... I have redhair. I am a virgin. I think the "No sex before marriage" thing is rlly stupid, but i think sex too young is stupid too. (Even though I daydream about sex all the time, I never think about actually doing it.) I have crushing issues, where i like a new guy almost every month because i give up on the ones who don't like me back. I'm pretty much desperate. Ik, sad right?
My friend's problem: So theres this guy tht i like, and i was talking to him today. Yesterday he asked my bestfreind out, and they were texting. He was asking her all sorts of stuff about sex, and he asked her to have sex with him. She said mabye over spring break. (She's in 8th grade too, she lost her virginity a few years ago.) Then she changed her mind and decided she wasn't going to have anymore sex until she was married. He got mad at her for lying about when she would do him. I was asking him about it, and we got to talking... And he asked me if I would do him if we were going out. I said mabye, only because I have liked him for like 6 months (unusual for me).
My problem: So today i was texting my best guy freind, (who is also my ex from last year), and I asked him if he ever thinks about sex. He said yeah, a lot. (Mind you, he is a total nerd, like video games and stuff. I love him for it.) And he said he had had a BJ before. This was a shock to me, because I didn't even think he know what sex even was! Then he asked me if I was thinking about having sex, cuz he wanted to have sex sometime soon. Then we started texting about sex and stuff, and he asked me to have sex with him. I said mabye sometime next year(in highschool), because I still rlly like him. And I also said I wouldn't do anything unless we dated for a while first. Then he started saying about how horny I was making him, how "Hard" he was, how much he wants me... etc. I was really confused, cuz like i said, he's not exactly "Sexy".. or even "Manly" at all. He told me how amazing my boobs are, and how he wants them... I thought it was strange. I was just kinda going along with it cuz this has never happened to me before. Should I have sex with him? Like next year? I really like him, and he made me feel really good about myself today.
Conclusion: Well, if you read this, thankyou for taking the time. If You have any advice at all, it's highly appreciated. I'm so confused about all of this, but I can't stop thinking about him... And Ik tht a lot of you are going to say I'm too young for sex, and I agree, but I really want to in a while... Thanks,
Some about me: I'm just about to finish 8th grade. Im 14. I'm kinda chibby... I have redhair. I am a virgin. I think the "No sex before marriage" thing is rlly stupid, but i think sex too young is stupid too. (Even though I daydream about sex all the time, I never think about actually doing it.) I have crushing issues, where i like a new guy almost every month because i give up on the ones who don't like me back. I'm pretty much desperate. Ik, sad right?
My friend's problem: So theres this guy tht i like, and i was talking to him today. Yesterday he asked my bestfreind out, and they were texting. He was asking her all sorts of stuff about sex, and he asked her to have sex with him. She said mabye over spring break. (She's in 8th grade too, she lost her virginity a few years ago.) Then she changed her mind and decided she wasn't going to have anymore sex until she was married. He got mad at her for lying about when she would do him. I was asking him about it, and we got to talking... And he asked me if I would do him if we were going out. I said mabye, only because I have liked him for like 6 months (unusual for me).
My problem: So today i was texting my best guy freind, (who is also my ex from last year), and I asked him if he ever thinks about sex. He said yeah, a lot. (Mind you, he is a total nerd, like video games and stuff. I love him for it.) And he said he had had a BJ before. This was a shock to me, because I didn't even think he know what sex even was! Then he asked me if I was thinking about having sex, cuz he wanted to have sex sometime soon. Then we started texting about sex and stuff, and he asked me to have sex with him. I said mabye sometime next year(in highschool), because I still rlly like him. And I also said I wouldn't do anything unless we dated for a while first. Then he started saying about how horny I was making him, how "Hard" he was, how much he wants me... etc. I was really confused, cuz like i said, he's not exactly "Sexy".. or even "Manly" at all. He told me how amazing my boobs are, and how he wants them... I thought it was strange. I was just kinda going along with it cuz this has never happened to me before. Should I have sex with him? Like next year? I really like him, and he made me feel really good about myself today.
Conclusion: Well, if you read this, thankyou for taking the time. If You have any advice at all, it's highly appreciated. I'm so confused about all of this, but I can't stop thinking about him... And Ik tht a lot of you are going to say I'm too young for sex, and I agree, but I really want to in a while... Thanks,
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