Pregnancy

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    I think with this teacher you should just handle the situation maturely. How? Go to the teacher, and talk to him. Spell it out for him that the best thing for you to do for your baby is have it grow up with it's father. Because let's face it, you have a baby to think of as well as yourself now. So just explain to him that you can't see him or speak with him anymore because you can't handle it emotionally. Though you may think you love him and think he loves you, and that it was a meaningful relationship, the best thing for you to do in your life is to stay on the path you're on, which is staying with Jack and his family.

    If you keep talking to and seeing this teacher, you're thinking of yourself and what you want. Right now you need to be thinking about what your baby needs, which is a stable household which Jack's parents are providing, a father, which is Jack, and not a complicated life which will be given to her if you go off and see this teacher because you think you're in love.
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    I haven't been on this thread in a while... Basically I've been getting a lot of private messages saying that I'm a whore or that they want me to strip on cam for them. I just thought I'd be better off taking a break from Teen Hut.

    Trillium wrote:

    I think with this teacher you should just handle the situation maturely. How? Go to the teacher, and talk to him. Spell it out for him that the best thing for you to do for your baby is have it grow up with it's father. Because let's face it, you have a baby to think of as well as yourself now. So just explain to him that you can't see him or speak with him anymore because you can't handle it emotionally. Though you may think you love him and think he loves you, and that it was a meaningful relationship, the best thing for you to do in your life is to stay on the path you're on, which is staying with Jack and his family.
    If you keep talking to and seeing this teacher, you're thinking of yourself and what you want. Right now you need to be thinking about what your baby needs, which is a stable household which Jack's parents are providing, a father, which is Jack, and not a complicated life which will be given to her if you go off and see this teacher because you think you're in love.


    I met up with Ryan and I told him I was with Jack because I could trust Jack and I loved him etc etc but them we got into a fight about it. He started calling me a slutty bitch and stuff and eventually he slapped me and left. I'm still with Jack and he doesn't know about any of this.
    Thanks, I'll stay with Jack, not just because he's Skye's dad, but I really do love him.

    ~Fallen~*Angel* wrote:

    This thread(and OP) represents everything I hate about this generation. :nono:


    Well you're in this generation too and I'm sure you're not perfect, so don't pointlessly criticize me.

    Akeila wrote:

    If I were you I would just lay low if you can and wait for it all to blow over because eventually it will, people will find somebody else s life to screw with or somebody else to gossip about. Anyway good luck


    Ryan was having loads of "meetings" with the head and he's left out of the blue. We were told he was having "family problems." The head wanted to see me, but she just asked how I was doing and if the school could provide help, to just say. But to the end of it she asked who Skye's dad was and I said Jack. But she looked at me like I was lying, then she said I could tell her if it was Ryan's baby. And I said it definitely wasn't and that was that.

    bgurll wrote:

    reading this... wow... just wow... stealing even if its for your child proves you're not ready... having a kid means doing everything to can for the child THATS LEGAL, you're no good to your kid if you're in jail.


    I had to do what I did, legal or not, so that I could get food and rent or I would have literally been starving on the streets. I would steal and do that again to protect my baby and I'm sure I'm not the only mother who would do so.
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    TessaBlaire wrote:


    Well you're in this generation too and I'm sure you're not perfect, so don't pointlessly criticize me.


    No, I'm not perfect. But at least I don't make stupid mistakes then try to act like I know what I'm doing and have it under control. You don't see me knocked up at 14 then trying to argue that every 10 year old has sex and that having sexual relations with a teacher is perfectly fine.
    There is a definite line between making mistakes and just being an idiot.

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    ~Fallen~*Angel* wrote:

    No, I'm not perfect. But at least I don't make stupid mistakes then try to act like I know what I'm doing and have it under control. You don't see me knocked up at 14 then trying to argue that every 10 year old has sex and that having sexual relations with a teacher is perfectly fine.
    There is a definite line between making mistakes and just being an idiot.


    To be honest, where I grew up that WAS pretty normal and it's not my fault if I was raised badly. I'm not focusing on what I've done wrong, I'm focusing on what I'm doing right. 0
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    I had to do what I did, legal or not, so that I could get food and rent or I would have literally been starving on the streets. I would steal and do that again to protect my baby and I'm sure I'm not the only mother who would do so.


    a GOOD mother does not NEED to do such things to protect and take care of her child... responsible people give their child up for adoption if they are that unfit.

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    TessaBlaire wrote:

    To be honest, where I grew up that WAS pretty normal and it's not my fault if I was raised badly. I'm not focusing on what I've done wrong, I'm focusing on what I'm doing right. 0


    So you're not focusing then?
    Or just starting to, since you at least gave up the teacher like a smart person would do?

    And no, it's not your fault that you were raised badly. But it is your fault that you use that as an excuse. I know plenty of kids from the worst neighborhoods that have made the absolute best of their life without stooping to your level.

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    bgurll wrote:

    a GOOD mother does not NEED to do such things to protect and take care of her child... responsible people give their child up for adoption if they are that unfit.


    I may have done shitty things for money in the past but that doesn't mean I'm an unfit mother, you don't know me so please don't assume that I can't responsibly raise a baby.

    ~Fallen~*Angel* wrote:

    So you're not focusing then?
    Or just starting to, since you at least gave up the teacher like a smart person would do?

    And no, it's not your fault that you were raised badly. But it is your fault that you use that as an excuse. I know plenty of kids from the worst neighborhoods that have made the absolute best of their life without stooping to your level.


    I had a meaningful relationship with Ryan and he still loved me, I only didn't go through with it because I'm pregnant and with Jack.

    My level? I have literally had NO MOTHER since I was about six. I've had to go things to get money because I had NO OTHER CHOICE. I try hard in school, I try hard to get people to like me, I'm trying hard to get a job, if you are just hear to insult me and tell me that I can't raise a baby then I guess you're stooping to BELOW "my level."
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    TessaBlaire wrote:

    I may have done shitty things for money in the past but that doesn't mean I'm an unfit mother, you don't know me so please don't assume that I can't responsibly raise a baby.



    I had a meaningful relationship with Ryan and he still loved me, I only didn't go through with it because I'm pregnant and with Jack.

    My level? I have literally had NO MOTHER since I was about six. I've had to go things to get money because I had NO OTHER CHOICE. I try hard in school, I try hard to get people to like me, I'm trying hard to get a job, if you are just hear to insult me and tell me that I can't raise a baby then I guess you're stooping to BELOW "my level."


    I'm not here to insult you, I'm here to give you a reality check.
    I could probably pull of several different quotes that shows just how much Ryan "loves" you.
    And one of those previously mentioned friends didn't have parents, literally. She's spent her life tossed from one shitty foster home to the next. She's had to try and raise money too. But instead of doing stupid illegal crap(which you seemed to have rather enjoyed, so I doubt it was JUST for money) she actually worked her ass off doing as much as she could to raise money.

    You need to stop using your past as some excuse to do stupid shit. That's all I'm saying, because if you suddenly decide that you need to start whoring yourself out or stealing stuff just to take care of your baby, "That's how I was raised" isn't going to go over well with CPS and the police.
    And it's pretty damn hard to raise a child from jail.

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    ~Fallen~*Angel* wrote:

    I'm not here to insult you, I'm here to give you a reality check.
    I could probably pull of several different quotes that shows just how much Ryan "loves" you.
    And one of those previously mentioned friends didn't have parents, literally. She's spent her life tossed from one shitty foster home to the next. She's had to try and raise money too. But instead of doing stupid illegal crap(which you seemed to have rather enjoyed, so I doubt it was JUST for money) she actually worked her ass off doing as much as she could to raise money.

    You need to stop using your past as some excuse to do stupid shit. That's all I'm saying, because if you suddenly decide that you need to start whoring yourself out or stealing stuff just to take care of your baby, "That's how I was raised" isn't going to go over well with CPS and the police.
    And it's pretty damn hard to raise a child from jail.


    I don't want to talk about Ryan, he's gone and he's not coming back.

    I didn't enjoy doing it, I couldn't find a job and I felt like it was my only option. And I HAVE worked my ass off and I still am.

    I've stopped doing drugs, drinking, having sex, stripping and being in porn. So I don't see why you need to bring it up. I'd do anything for my baby.
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