So, you are thinking constantly, every minute of the day about that girl or boy... but what i want to know is someday, will you start thinking of another boy or girl? Will this new person overtake these thoughts you had? Just want to generaly know!
Can someone, someday, take over your thoughts?
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Well, that happened to me, I thought about the same guy, all the time. He barely even knew I existed!! But I couldn't help it, and yes, I did stop thinking about him. It just phased out, I guess I realized there was no future. Currently, that's what is happening to me, I can't stop thinking about the same guy. I shouldn't think about him, but I do. So again, to answer, yes it's possible, but usually as a teenager the thoughts 'fade away'. At least that's how it is for me![CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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yeah. same here about this girl. i guess i should just see the realistic side to it all. but at least someday, the other one will come along, and feel the same haha Life is weird
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you're not alone
it happens to us all we just don't say it because we all think we are the only onesIt's better to be smart than pretty and useless
First you find out what you have, Dad would say. Then you figure out how to make it work for what you need, cause you don't get what you want. You get what you have and no more.
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ano. we all feel we are when we arent. The person who takes over your mind though, have you found yourself just moving away from it, or having it replaced, say by someone else?
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Well someone cannot literally Take over your Mind but they can make it feel like it. I have found that I just gradually stopped thinking about them all that time. It's kinda like I go through a phase, but it's more. You know?[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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true. yeah its probably just like when you do move on, they will crop up in your mind every so often, but not as strong as they used to
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Exactly! Yeah, that's what happens, you think about them, just not exactly in the same way, you know?[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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Yeah and I just got over it It was really sad at first and still is but I have to move on with my life.
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Redlaser21 wrote:
Yeah and I just got over it It was really sad at first and still is but I have to move on with my life.[/QUOTE
good for you Redlaser. So how did you accomplish it? Just wlaking away from it all? Distancing yourself s the feelings can fade?