i'm 14 and a girl and a couple of people in my year have been fingered and tossed a boy off etc but i've always been one of the good girls i've been going out with *********** for a month and i went round to his for the second time and basically he fingered me and i wanked him off, it was the first time for both both of us, he said he wouldnt tell anyone and i trusted him but his mates hacked his phone and although we didnt say what we did we were saying how we wouldnt tell anyone about it! And they have read the texts, i'm really worried am i a slut?
am i a slut?
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If you're worried about what his friends would think, then you probably shouldn't have been doing it in the first place.
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lol dont worry girly (idk why i decided to say that.) but no your not a slut my term of slut is : a girl who does sexual things with multi guys.. and when i say that i dont mean when you break up with someone date another person and do it again, im saying like when ur single and you do a bunch of peoples there for you said you only did him your going out so not ur not a slut so dont worry :D! your a perfectly fine girl! no tags added to you!life is like a maze, twist,turns, ups and downs, dead ends and stops, but you'll always find your way out to a new maze.
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Since you are 14, I'd say you're onto a good start to becoming one.
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I wouldn't say so.[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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i suppose you are right but i dont plan on having sex before i'm atleast 20 , and i will not do anything more with him, and i'm worried about what his mates with think because i really really like him :confused:
thankyou for your advice but what do i do now?
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expect anything you do with a guy for his friends to find out
we tell each other everything
i always brag about what chick i had sex with -
aha really?
what do i do now then? :confused: -
why worry about it
his friends will think its great -
keilnlse wrote:
aha really?
what do i do now then? :confused:
No, only the douche bags do that.
And you don't do anything, in a sense.
If his friends bring it up, you tell them to fuck off and stay out of your business, and that's it's between you and your boyfriend. No one else.
Then you continue your relationship and try not to make this sexual business something you do with ALL of the guys you will eventually date. You keep that "no sex until I'm at least 20" idea clear in your head and hold on to your dignity. -
dont worry about what his friends are thinking, just ignore them, dont worry about it, they would find out somehow they just found out sooner then you wanted them to, just ignore it gone on with life, its nothing to worry about.life is like a maze, twist,turns, ups and downs, dead ends and stops, but you'll always find your way out to a new maze.
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yeah they will think its great, but i've always been the good girl, just wanna keep it that way. what do i do? :confused:
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I dont think you are a slut if it was your first time and if those boys say something well then its okay because i meen who cares what people think as long as you know in your heart that you aint a slut then thats all u need andc your family and boyfriend know you aint one i always tell my friends im there for them because i am and ill be there for anyone who is haveing a hard time so if u need someone to talk to message me
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you are a good girl for doing that to him
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Thats errrrrrrr great advice there!
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sorry im not replying back fast enough, um well act like yall was talking about something different, they may think something else but you know your hiding it so you think straight to that, tell them yall was talking about something serious like a family secret about something or anything in the lines of that or about a secret you told him about ur friends or family maybe something that embarassed you but dont tell them the secret just tell them its a secret maybe it will change there mindslife is like a maze, twist,turns, ups and downs, dead ends and stops, but you'll always find your way out to a new maze.
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keilnlse wrote:
Thats errrrrrrr great advice there!
Seriously, don't listen to him. The guy's a moron. -
life is like a maze, twist,turns, ups and downs, dead ends and stops, but you'll always find your way out to a new maze.
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~Fallen~*Angel* wrote:
Seriously, don't listen to him. The guy's a moron.
umm no im not
im a typical guy that just stated the truth. its hard for chicks to except that but we brag about stuff like that
she should be proud. she made her bf happy -
HockeyFan wrote:
umm no im not
im a typical guy that just stated the truth. its hard for chicks to except that but we brag about stuff like that
she should be proud. she made her bf happy
Yes, yes you are. We can look at you're pitiful excuse for spelling and punctuation to figure out that much.
And not all guys do. I know that for a fact. It only seems to be the ones that aren't too interested in keeping a girl around for very long.
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