I don't know if anyone can help or whatever, but any comments would be much appreciated.
Basically, I'm 18 and I just can't have sex because, and excuse the crudeness, nothing actually -fits- in there, you know what I mean? I tried having sex with my ex, and yeah we were both nervous but it was okay because I trusted him. But after he gets about an inch in, it wont go any further. It hurts me a lot, but I wanted to just get it done with so I told him to keep going but we just couldn't, like there was something in the way.
We split up (for different reasons) so I thought maybe it would be better if I bought a vibe and did it myself. But still, no amount of wetness, relaxation or even alcohol helps.
I've just had enough, I know I'm ready to have sex and I want to. Don't know what else to do now. So yeah =/ any ideas?
Basically, I'm 18 and I just can't have sex because, and excuse the crudeness, nothing actually -fits- in there, you know what I mean? I tried having sex with my ex, and yeah we were both nervous but it was okay because I trusted him. But after he gets about an inch in, it wont go any further. It hurts me a lot, but I wanted to just get it done with so I told him to keep going but we just couldn't, like there was something in the way.
We split up (for different reasons) so I thought maybe it would be better if I bought a vibe and did it myself. But still, no amount of wetness, relaxation or even alcohol helps.
I've just had enough, I know I'm ready to have sex and I want to. Don't know what else to do now. So yeah =/ any ideas?