I don't really do romance, but if a guy let me drive his truck, I'd be his forever.

Crossing the line? Too much romance. I don't want roses and chocolates and movies and fancy dinners. If a guy did that, I'd run screaming for the hills (with the chocolate of course)

Sweet/romantic gestures, like you said Heather, would be little things like notes, flowers, etc. Especially when its unexpected.

Crossing the line? IDK. Maybe a bouquet of flowers, gourmet chocolates, and jewelry after the third date.

I'd post a picture but I'd get banned

I think one of the sweetest gestures is when a guy remembers little details about you honestly, or just does random nice things out of the blue, and asks me how my day was. Those little simple things are what win me over. I'm not into being wined and dined or getting gifts.

I don't really think there is crossing the line if you're with someone. But guys who you don't really feel a connection for it creeps me out when they text me all the time and are cheesy when I don't feel the same way AT ALL.

I like when a guy is a gentleman. Holds open doors, pays for stuff..

lolz, I'm a rough and roudy girl. I love trucks and wouldn't let a guy drive mine (used to have one, trying to get another) so my reasoning is, if a guy trusted me enough and cared for me enough to drive his prized, ratty old truck, that'd be the sweetest thing ever.

Oh yeah, a guy pretty much has to have a truck for me to be into him. Tomboy/country girl. xD

To me, romantic gestures would include gentleman like gestures(opening doors for you, giving you his jacket or something), cute things such as random sweet notes or just going on a walk together in the evening. Maybe a sweet little picnic, you know, stuff like that. I'm not big on the huge Valentine's Day heart shaped balloons and heart shaped boxes of candy and jewelry and things. I think that's a too much on the cliched and cheesy side.

Personally, I think one of the cutest things is just getting a sweet kiss on the forehead.

Sami wrote:

I don't really think there is crossing the line if you're with someone. But guys who you don't really feel a connection for it creeps me out when they text me all the time and are cheesy when I don't feel the same way AT ALL.

Hahaha. I had a guy like that. He was annoying as hell and wouldnt leave me alone (I made the mistake of agreeing to hang out with him to be nice, and he went all psycho creeper on me. First thing he said "this made me so happy! You don't know how long I've waited for you to want to hang out with me again!". :nono:) I just ignored every text and call.. Apparently he got the hint, because he deleted me off Facebook :rofl:

I agree with Heather on the whole cute/romantic thing.

Crossing the line would be girls rubbing there boobies while looking at me, or guys pelvic thrusting and so on.

girls you hit on shouldnt have boobies bro

Peter Griffin wrote:

girls you hit on shouldnt have boobies bro

Girls I get/got with do though.

With a guy I like gentlemanly things like holding a door, kissing my hand and so on.
With girls I like it when they're being lady-like.
And crossing the line would be odd stalker-ish behavior

meg.loomis wrote:

Hahaha. I had a guy like that. He was annoying as hell and wouldnt leave me alone (I made the mistake of agreeing to hang out with him to be nice, and he went all psycho creeper on me. First thing he said "this made me so happy! You don't know how long I've waited for you to want to hang out with me again!". :nono:) I just ignored every text and call.. Apparently he got the hint, because he deleted me off Facebook :rofl:

Lmfao way! Same here!

I kind of agree with everyone else: just sweet little things, and I don't even mind cheesy stuff as long as he also recognizes how cheesy it is haha. It's usually easier for guys to 'cross the line' if you don't know them very well or aren't dating them.



Don't restrict yourself, girl. I used to be like that too -- but there are some real nice guys out there who drive cars, and some huge douchebags who drive trucks.

I do agree with your romantic reasoning though; if a guy lets you help him work on or drive his 'baby', you can tell he thinks very highly of you.

Sami wrote:

Lmfao way! Same here!

Haha my friend was like "just explain to him you're not interested", I was like "fuck that, it's easier to ignore him!" :p if he'd kept it up I was prepared to ask a guy friend to message him saying to "lay off my girlfriend" :p (even though I'm not dating anyone :D)

Small penis syndrome.

I don't know it seems playful teasing works a lot