I need some help... There's this girl in my school who happens to have a last name that comes directly before mine in the alphabet. Our school uses alphabetical order via last name to place students to their lockers. So now I am "locker buddies" with this girl, her words not mine. Apparently, there are certain things a locker buddy should do. One is moving out of the way so the other person doesn't have to go around you to get to their locker. Another is telling them the homework at the end of the day. Then there's waiting for the other to finish before leaving and then walking together to the next class. I have the exact same schedule as her. And lastly you carry the other person's binder. I don't know if it's just me, but I think a couple of those things should be done by the boyfriend she doesn't have. This is all just in the first 2 weeks of school. I'm a nice guy and I'm okay with the homework thing and being nice to her, but it's getting a little too much. My friends are asking me if I'm going out with her and saying that we're the only people in the school who are locker buddies. Some heard her saying "Bye locker buddy!" and said "Locker buddies? That's cute..." I don't know what to do. I mean I don't want to be mean to her, but I don't know how much more of this whole locker buddy business I can take. She also asked me out(on a dare) and I said no. She then asked me this "Theoretically, if I were to ask you out on a real date, would you say yes?" I just looked at her and shook my head. I also was going to be on the same team as her playing soccer and when I told her I quit, she seemed genuinely concerned. I just don't know what to do. I mean we've been friends for about a year and we aren't too close but this is just too much. Can someone please help me?
Girl trouble(and she isn't even my girlfriend!)
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She's trying to make you her boyfriend against your will by fabricating an "unwritten code". Run hard, run fast.
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Well you already started by making it clear you didn't want a relationship, at least you've been very clear about it.
I would ask her why you have to do all this as her locker buddy but she doesn't have to do it to you
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You should just tell her straight. Don't be extremely harsh about it, but you do need to get the point across. She doesn't seem to have gotten the hint from your saying that wouldn't date her, or she's ignoring it and hoping that you might change your mind, but all she's going to do is keep coming on stronger until you either give in or just tell her that it's too much. Unfortunately you're leading her on until you can tell her straight that it's not going to happen. She's probably going to be a little hurt, but in the end, it's better to just do it now, before she gets even deeper into this.- Team Jacob
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agree with jacob ...
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Well there is no such thing as "locker buddy code" at least not any kind of code like that where you have to be her personal bitch for the whole day. My advice, learn how to use the word "no."
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Sami wrote:
Well there is no such thing as "locker buddy code" at least not any kind of code like that where you have to be her personal bitch for the whole day. My advice, learn how to use the word "no."
This about sums it up :p there's no rule saying you have to be their slave. Hell nobody even talks to the person beside them at my school (unless they're already friends of course). But like Sami said, learn to say no. If I could get someone wrapped around my finger like this girl's done, I would haha. -
it's obvious she likes you but if she's making u do that stuff as a locker buddy imagine the stuff shed want u to do if u were actually dating. fuck that shit, grow some balls and screw her off[CENTER]
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