I'm one of those overweight guys and I like multiple girls in my school but I don't know how to ask them out, I always get sweaty and teary eyed and I can't talk. I always think I'll get rejected because of my weight and I don't want to get embarrassed because I get made fun of because of my weight everyday and exercise is not an answer because I excerise 3 times a day every day for 2 hours and I only lose like 1 pound a day.... So how do i ask a girl out without being a complete laughing stock
How do I ask her
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Off topic, but do you eat healthy? What kind of exercise do you do? As for asking a girl out, get her number and text her asking to meet up at Starbucks or something like that, then it won't be so hard to ask her out.
“We've all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That's who we really are.”
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You sound like a sweet guy. I don't want you to think that all females see is a guy's appearance. Some girls, sadly, would reject you simple because they feel like they would be judged... but trust me, you don't want to be with a girl like that anyhow. I don't know the exact situation you are in, but you should ask in a way that you are comforable with. Don't fear rejection... It's normal and will pass. And like I said earlier, that is not the kind of person you want to be with anyhow. I hope this helps some.. best of luck!
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Just have some man confidence bro and go ask.[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
"When you really matter to someone, that person will always make time for you. No excuses, no lies, and no broken promises." -
Linda wrote:
Off topic, but do you eat healthy? What kind of exercise do you do? As for asking a girl out, get her number and text her asking to meet up at Starbucks or something like that, then it won't be so hard to ask her out.
I don't eat as healthy as I could and for exercise I lift weights and use the ab machin es at my gym
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Katelyn B wrote:
You sound like a sweet guy. I don't want you to think that all females see is a guy's appearance. Some girls, sadly, would reject you simple because they feel like they would be judged... but trust me, you don't want to be with a girl like that anyhow. I don't know the exact situation you are in, but you should ask in a way that you are comforable with. Don't fear rejection... It's normal and will pass. And like I said earlier, that is not the kind of person you want to be with anyhow. I hope this helps some.. best of luck! -
wait....... dude if like linda said if u exercise everyday but u still eat bunch of junk food u still will gain weight and change ur looks wear and try exercise try build up those 6 packs i think girls will fly to u
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xHOFFMANz wrote:
I don't eat as healthy as I could and for exercise I lift weights and use the ab machin es at my gym
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Thanks this is great advice I actually have a girlfriend out her name is Megan thanks again you are the best
No offense but I don't think that you can really complain about your weight if you still eat junk food. Lifting weights is more so for gaining muscle, not losing weight. Why don't you try going on the elliptical and running? Why not doing a kick boxing class or a boot camp class? THOSE are the things for losing weight.
“We've all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That's who we really are.”
-J.K. Rowling -
If they laugh then they are biotches and not worth your time. you need someone who can except you for who you are, and not go out with you because they feel bad or something rediculous. i am sure you are a very nice guy and deserve a very nice gurl so go find that girl! :)CutieCakesCares:)
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You will lost most weight with excercise like running, biking, skipping rope.... Lifting weight in combination of eating unhealthy wont make you lose weight. So if you want to change your weight and be more healthy you should eat healthy and do cardio stuff, not only lifting weights. Cardio makes you lose fat.
Other thing is - I advice you not to go from girl to girl asking them out. If you can't decide which one to ask, then maybe it's better not to ask any of them.
It's something girls share, and I know what we talked about guys in HS who were going from one girl to next one, looking for one that will accept them. If one rejects you the other will too, cos she doesn't want to be the 2nd one, if you understand.
So, work more on your health and wait for some girl that you will really like, more then other girls. -
^ exactly. Maybe you could find any interesting diet? I don't mean a diet which would makes you hungry all the time, but there are many tips on Internet. That's all what can I tell you.[CENTER][SIZE=2]The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend. [/SIZE][/CENTER]
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I'm sorry i'm the exact opposite of you -.- I can't gain weight. But I do have a lot of muscle in my arms and legs so it looks weird... I'm 17 years old, 5'6 53kg which is 116 pounds - funny huh? xD
But girls say that it compliments my personality, maybe you need to figure out what's imporant to you. If it's girls + healith : you will have the will to start dieting.
I've given up online gaming for my health I'm sure you can give up junk food!
One last thing; confidence comes from knowing yourself and what you want - not really what you look like[SIGPIC]Your perception of the world is -how- you feel.[/SIGPIC]
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