My ex-best friend and I have known each other for nearly 5 years. I come from Kentucky and Missouri and she comes from Florida. I live in FL now. SHe used to be shy. Me, outgoing. I still am.
I don't mind that she's gotten outgoing. It's just her acting slutty and ghetto now that gets me ticked off.
I'm still the same person. Her- not so much. On wednesday, I was sick. So I didn't go to school. Next thing I hear, people are asking me "Why are you still friends with ___ when she called you all those things?" What did she call me? Let's see... b*tch, wh*re, etc etc...
SHe had no reason to. Well, she did, but it was a pathetic reason. I asked her for advice the night before, and she told me pretty much everything I already knew. So, I asked another friend, and she helped me. I told her that ___ wasnt any help. They just happened to be on the phone at the time so they told each other the messages. SHe thought it would be harmless, but Wednesday, this is what she said:
"I tried to help her and she goes around telling everyone I'm no help?"
I asked her about it because of course all my friends told me. SHe said she was kidding and I believed her until Friday night. How stupid I was... Because now, finding everything out, I know I can never be friends with her again.
And although I know that this is all for the best, I can't help but feel upset. I don't know why... what do I do? I miss her. the OLD her. Not who she is now. Please Help.
~Becca
I don't mind that she's gotten outgoing. It's just her acting slutty and ghetto now that gets me ticked off.
I'm still the same person. Her- not so much. On wednesday, I was sick. So I didn't go to school. Next thing I hear, people are asking me "Why are you still friends with ___ when she called you all those things?" What did she call me? Let's see... b*tch, wh*re, etc etc...
SHe had no reason to. Well, she did, but it was a pathetic reason. I asked her for advice the night before, and she told me pretty much everything I already knew. So, I asked another friend, and she helped me. I told her that ___ wasnt any help. They just happened to be on the phone at the time so they told each other the messages. SHe thought it would be harmless, but Wednesday, this is what she said:
"I tried to help her and she goes around telling everyone I'm no help?"
I asked her about it because of course all my friends told me. SHe said she was kidding and I believed her until Friday night. How stupid I was... Because now, finding everything out, I know I can never be friends with her again.
And although I know that this is all for the best, I can't help but feel upset. I don't know why... what do I do? I miss her. the OLD her. Not who she is now. Please Help.
~Becca