Hi ! So here's the situation: Me and my boyfriend just broke up about 2-3 weeks ago. We had been together for 3 YEARS ! We had a long distance relationship. We used to see each other whenever we could. We broke up because he is REALLY busy and it became too much for me because i needed his attention- since i was his girlfriend. So we said that we would take a break until he got his schedule together. We still talk on the phone because we have been in a relationship for 3 years and feel kinda comfortable being on the phone with each other. We can NEVER have a decent conversation with each other without an argument or somebody being mad at the other person. I love him so much. And he loves me too. He's just a lot to handle and im sure i am too. PLEASE HELP ME ! I DON'T WANT THIS RELATIONSHIP TO COMPLETELY GO DOWN THE DRAIN !
Help ! I need to save my relationship
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What exactly do you want us to tell you? There's nothing we can really say to fix anything.
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You have to put the anger you have for him for doing this away. That is the only way the fighting will go away. Of course you will be mad at him for doing this to you but just imagine how he feels. Give him his space he needs and just wait for him to be ready. The relationship may be over and I hope you will be able to see when it is. But if you have the chance to save it do not blame him or he will just run.To a new beginning.
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Ummmm, I guess just keep talking to him on the phone. If you have an argument just try to say, "I don't want ot argue, Lets talk about something else please." That is pretty much all the advice I have....sorry. Good luck! and happy new year!Got Jesus? I do!:love1:
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Stjowa wrote:
You have to put the anger you have for him for doing this away. That is the only way the fighting will go away. Of course you will be mad at him for doing this to you but just imagine how he feels. Give him his space he needs and just wait for him to be ready. The relationship may be over and I hope you will be able to see when it is. But if you have the chance to save it do not blame him or he will just run.
didnt you pee on your girlfriend? -
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meg.loomis wrote:
:rofl:
Who does that?
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Goddess of Judecca wrote:
Well, hey, if he's still with that chick, maybe OP should try it. XD
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Try explaining him the situation...Meet with him..You were together for 3 years...By that time you should have earned trust in each other.If he just doesn't want to continue with your relationship,you can't do anything.:/
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ive been in this situation.
long distance? meaning what? a city away, a few miles away, a state away?
I would honestly do this, and take a break.
reason why: let everything cool down and chill, ya'll arent friendly anymore, theres no friendship in your relationship right now. He maybe so busy, and stressed he might be taking it out on you, vice versa.
I would just take a break, and let shit simmer down a little bit, not necessarily see other people, but just find yourself first. -
Thanks to the people who had positive things to say ! It helped
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