Hi. This is really important to me, so please give me any advice you have.
I'm a 15 year old girl and my best friend is a 15 year old guy. Let's call him Steve. Steve and I met in grade 9 and are in grade 10 now. We have lunch everyday and talk by text often. He is openly gay and we have suppoted each other through our ups and downs.
About 3 months ago he tells me over text that he is not comfortable being in groups of two, even with me. It broke my heart. He is comfortable with other people, but not with me. We dont see eacch other outside of school and he makes me feel pointless to him because he is not comfortable with me. It hurts so badly. Whenever I try to bring it up with him (over text), he gets angry at me saying that he's already explained that I should not be taking this personally.
I have no idea how to feel, how to deal with this. I don't see a point to our friendship if he doesn't feel the same way I do with him. It hurts so, so much and he doesn't understand. Please, please someone help.
I'm a 15 year old girl and my best friend is a 15 year old guy. Let's call him Steve. Steve and I met in grade 9 and are in grade 10 now. We have lunch everyday and talk by text often. He is openly gay and we have suppoted each other through our ups and downs.
About 3 months ago he tells me over text that he is not comfortable being in groups of two, even with me. It broke my heart. He is comfortable with other people, but not with me. We dont see eacch other outside of school and he makes me feel pointless to him because he is not comfortable with me. It hurts so badly. Whenever I try to bring it up with him (over text), he gets angry at me saying that he's already explained that I should not be taking this personally.
I have no idea how to feel, how to deal with this. I don't see a point to our friendship if he doesn't feel the same way I do with him. It hurts so, so much and he doesn't understand. Please, please someone help.