My history of being in relationships is a bit blind for me and my current one is felling like it might fall in that path. I'm 22 and in a Relationship that my parents dont know of and ive kept it a secret for almost 3 years, I always put parents first before anything else. Im attending college right now and the deal with my parents is that I dont have to pay rent if I just kept fallowing chores routine. My boyfriend, however lives a pretty easy life, even though he lives with his parents too. I sometimes, but usually, always fallow my parents rules// where in his case is a bit on and off // he believes that since im old enough to make my own decisions that I shouldn't fallow my parents rules and that im being babyied // he does have moments before // but usually not with me // gets easily upset // his parents do drink and at some moments everything gets verbally harsh // I need help, advice to this situation // before we even dated we were best friends // I had a crush on him in highschool // during my sophmore year and up Ive never heard from him again// I found out through my second relationship that he had an acquaintance he wanted me to meet// and it ended up being my high school crush that disapperd from the face of the earth. my second relationship ended up being verbally abusive and I ended up being even closer // I went through 3 relationships // and my bf now is only in his first ( and that's with me) // he was always shy due to his structure // I just really need advice when it comes to fallowing my parents rules vs getting in an argument with him // I know he doesn't mean to burst out but .... Im just so lost:(