Right so I go to an all girls school, yet recently they have started letting boys join in our sixth form years. Recently a lot of boys joined my year group in lower sixth. There is this one boy who I was in town with after school on the first day because my best friend was very close to him but just as friends.
A few months ago, this same boy approached me and asked for help with his maths homework. We had hardly ever spoke before. Obviously I was kind enough to say yes. I helped him and then when I was walking down the corridor, he spoke to our mutual friend from the start of the year and told her 'your dark haired friend is pretty.' My friend attempted to guess who he was talking about and then she said my name and he said yes her.
He added me on facebook and we spoke a little, but just basically him thanking me for helping him with maths and such. Then our mutual friend stopped me in the corridor and told me what he said to her. I just found this rather cute but nothing else and carried on to class. He was one of those boys who appeared to be a player in a way. Then one night my friend told him on my facebook chat when I was on the phone that I think hes really cute, which was true, to what he replied with 'awk jessica ;)'. We spoke for a while just in general. The following day in school he smiled at me in the corridor. This continued for a while and my friends started teasing us. He then said to me on facebook that he's shy. I told him I was shy too but we started saying Hi to eachother. Eventually this developed to a long conversation between me and him when we were on a free period together, just me and him in a room, our friends in the next room with the door closed. He admitted calling me pretty and added that he thought I was 'gorgeous and sexy' as well.
Well I took this as flirting and for the next month he kept flirting with me and telling me he was really glad we had began to speak, we were speaking day and night constantly talking on facebook and he asked for my number so we text each other as well. He eventually said in a joking manner when he was rather drunk that he loves me. I knew he was drunk and just laughed it off. But then he said it in the conversation the next day and the following and so on. He kept sending me cute songs from youtube about relationships and everything.
Then a few days ago my friend wrote a status on facebook saying 'I hate when people should be in a relationship but wont do anything about it.' and she tagged us both. He brought this to my attention and said 'don't worry about it :P'. But then yesterday he text me saying 'I only wanted to be friends like thought you knew that aswell. Im sorry if I've confused you and stuff.' Now I know people were annoying him by talking about us talking but everyone had told me he liked me. He would always smile and had began to talk about us going walks together outside of school and then dropped a bombshell like that.
I have no idea what to do Do you reckon I should just try and be friends with him, or is he not worth it? I still really like him and don't understand. I know the friendship won't be the same as before. I always saw him in school everyday and today he was nowhere to be seen but he said he would still be the same boy I knew before. Sorry this was so long but it is rather confusing and I wanted to give as many details as possible
A few months ago, this same boy approached me and asked for help with his maths homework. We had hardly ever spoke before. Obviously I was kind enough to say yes. I helped him and then when I was walking down the corridor, he spoke to our mutual friend from the start of the year and told her 'your dark haired friend is pretty.' My friend attempted to guess who he was talking about and then she said my name and he said yes her.
He added me on facebook and we spoke a little, but just basically him thanking me for helping him with maths and such. Then our mutual friend stopped me in the corridor and told me what he said to her. I just found this rather cute but nothing else and carried on to class. He was one of those boys who appeared to be a player in a way. Then one night my friend told him on my facebook chat when I was on the phone that I think hes really cute, which was true, to what he replied with 'awk jessica ;)'. We spoke for a while just in general. The following day in school he smiled at me in the corridor. This continued for a while and my friends started teasing us. He then said to me on facebook that he's shy. I told him I was shy too but we started saying Hi to eachother. Eventually this developed to a long conversation between me and him when we were on a free period together, just me and him in a room, our friends in the next room with the door closed. He admitted calling me pretty and added that he thought I was 'gorgeous and sexy' as well.
Well I took this as flirting and for the next month he kept flirting with me and telling me he was really glad we had began to speak, we were speaking day and night constantly talking on facebook and he asked for my number so we text each other as well. He eventually said in a joking manner when he was rather drunk that he loves me. I knew he was drunk and just laughed it off. But then he said it in the conversation the next day and the following and so on. He kept sending me cute songs from youtube about relationships and everything.
Then a few days ago my friend wrote a status on facebook saying 'I hate when people should be in a relationship but wont do anything about it.' and she tagged us both. He brought this to my attention and said 'don't worry about it :P'. But then yesterday he text me saying 'I only wanted to be friends like thought you knew that aswell. Im sorry if I've confused you and stuff.' Now I know people were annoying him by talking about us talking but everyone had told me he liked me. He would always smile and had began to talk about us going walks together outside of school and then dropped a bombshell like that.
I have no idea what to do Do you reckon I should just try and be friends with him, or is he not worth it? I still really like him and don't understand. I know the friendship won't be the same as before. I always saw him in school everyday and today he was nowhere to be seen but he said he would still be the same boy I knew before. Sorry this was so long but it is rather confusing and I wanted to give as many details as possible
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