Kissing in public?

B'Elanna · Oct 8th 2006, 5:59pm

I've always found it kinda hard to kiss my BF in public or with other people around that aren't close friends. My friends and their respective dates never found it that hard, they'd steal kisses and hugs and stuff in the hallway at school during breaks or class switches. I don't know why, maybe I'm just a little insecure about myself and I don't think you ought to broadcast stuff to the whole world. I mean, I really like my BF and I'm not ashamed or anything:confused, but it's still a little hard.
Does anybody else have this problem? Or do you even think that it is right to kiss in public?:confused:

Matt · Oct 8th 2006, 7:14pm

I get this problem some times espcially at school cause there will always be someone who will come up to you and shove your haeds together, or you'll get people talking to you or shout to you "GET A ROOM!"

I guess kissing in public is fine you just gotta get used to it that's all.

PAPIA · Oct 9th 2006, 6:57am

It depends on individual's thoughts.I think,kissing in public is a kind of showoff . They want show that how much they are in love with each other.
It is a private thing and one should maintain privacy.

username #19 · Oct 9th 2006, 7:01am

Kiss in public
who do this. not ever seen in pubic.

Luvie · Oct 9th 2006, 5:51pm

I think it is GROSS. Especially when my parents do it or hold hands and stuff, just gross me out bad. On t.v. I hate when they like cry and then kiss, that is really gross, makes me gag, thinking all that gross stuff going in each other mouth and stuff.

mopsymog · Oct 10th 2006, 9:10pm

i think it is fine. dont do it personally but seeing other people do it doesnt bother me because i dont take any notice. i suppose for a while it would be wierd to kiss in front of people like at school but once the people that say "get a room" have grown up i wouldnt mind that much.

sweet_treat · Oct 11th 2006, 4:20pm

Its a big no-no for me.
But i am not bothered if others do. They are just showing their affection.
I wont do cuz i know all don't think like me and will object big time.
Here you can get a fine for "obscenity" too.

Ashlee · Oct 12th 2006, 1:21am

I have always enjoyed public displays of affection no matter who is around. I think that the people that say things to you are just being immature and jealous that you are having a good time and are in love with someone. I know that if my boyfriend had a problem kissing me in public we would not be able to be together.

PAPIA · Oct 13th 2006, 5:14pm

Hi Neo,
Do you know I have read in the news paper that Moscow may ban kissing in public.The ban was being considered at the request of police and the city's education committee
People are kissing even on the escalator in the metro. Something must be done about this,they think.According to the paper, if the ban were implemented, fines would range from $10 to $17.

lost_in_the_pretty_rain · Oct 30th 2006, 9:28pm

Neo wrote:

I don't care if I'm in public or not when kissing, it is spontanoeus and between the two of us. I love my girl and I don't care if there is anyone around when I kiss her, just watch the other way if you don't like. People don't mind watching gross violence in movies or wars but they mind when a couple is in love and they're doing what they do when they're in love. How ironic?

I completely agree with Neo. =D

hali · Nov 2nd 2006, 12:25am

There is nothing wrong with public displays of affection, kissing should not be on a schedule. It is something you do when you feel it, not something you try to control because other people can see you. To not kiss in public is suffocating spontaneity and romance. I happen to think that these are the things that help keep a relationship alive and fresh. Never let things get stale, once they do it is all downhill from there.

gwaping · Nov 21st 2006, 4:10am

Kissing for two people who like each other is perfectly OK. You just have to be comfortable doing it. If you don't want to do it in public, then don't sweat it out!! It does not mean you love him less for that or you are a total lowlife for not following the trend. Be true to yourself, I think your BF will appreciate you more.

I myslef feels awkward kissing and necking in public. I mean, it's really an intimate thing that should be shared just between 2 people in love.

angel · Dec 3rd 2006, 9:29am

I don't like kissing in public at all. Kissing in public does not show your intensity of love. It's nothing but a kind of show off. Love is a rare experience and you should maintain privacy about the expression of love. It is not a thing of publicity.

lagaya · Jan 2nd 2007, 8:43pm

Maybe this is a question of traditions... In France, and especially in Paris, all lovers are kissing in the streets, in bars, in schools, in the metro and I don't know where... Sometimes, I'm just fed up with that when I come back from school in metro, tired, and I have to face three couples kissing each other! But I also think that everyone must be free about his acts, when it doesn't attack the others. If people can't express their love in the street, what should they do? :rolleyes:

Jennifer_Rose · Feb 24th 2007, 8:23pm

this guy thta asked me out, kissed me in public while we waited for the light to turn. he grabbed my waist and gave me a simple kiss. we've been making out for a hour and a half before. i think it's showing that he cares.

Jinx · Feb 28th 2007, 7:36pm

I guess it's ok as long as you're not all over eachother. I don't mind kissing in public as long as the people around don't stare too much.

killy750 · Mar 1st 2007, 9:22pm

well you shoouldnt care about it, the only persons tha matter in that moment is you and him, sooo if you think of that you will realise that theres no problem of kissing in public

Jinx · Mar 1st 2007, 9:29pm

Yeah, I know, and I don't really mind, but I don't need to put on a freackin' show for the ones who pass by.

Van18 · Mar 2nd 2007, 12:05am

there is nothing wrong with kissing in public, ur just showing how u feel

CapybaraB · Mar 12th 2007, 2:52am

I think it's perfectly fine to kiss in public. if you don't feel comfortable doing it, then don't.

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