So there's this guy in my English class and we've been messaging eachother over Facebook for a while now. He's very flirtatious over Facebook but shy in person around me whenever we do talk in person. He kept saying that he wants to hangout with me (like on a date) and we'd make plans but every time at the last minute something will come up...the first time it happened I didn't really think much of it but it has happened 3 times now...it seems to me that he can make time for his friends but he can't spare one day for me....also today the subject of year 12 formal came up (prom) and he kept asking me if I had a date and whether I have anyone in mind...I'm just scared that if I say yes to him if he asks me to formal that I'll just end up disappointed. Should I say yes? Is he worth it?
I need advice on boys.
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Feel free to say yes, but also tell him not to flake. He's stood you up 3 times, probably because of nerves, but if he's going to ask you, and you say yes, make sure you tell him, in your own way, not to be late.
If he doesn't show up, then he's not really worth your time. -
Go for it. To me, it just sounds like the poor guy's nervous. But also, it's not fair being stood up three times. Let him know you want to, but you don't want to be let down again.[FONT="Palatino Linotype"][COLOR="Silver"][SIZE="2"][CENTER][SIZE="2"] Growing old is inevitable. Growing up is optional! [/SIZE][/CENTER][/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT]
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I think he's just nervous when he is around you. You should say yes, but have a back up plan. Also, be persistent when it comes to making plans with him.
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Still we don't know what were the reasons like? Maybe he did want to go out, but couldn't. If so - say yes, but if he lied to you - just give up. Are you not pretty sure? I'm assuming you'll rather regret that you didn't make a thing, than the one you did, so...
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The first time it happened it was because of family commitments, the second time his excuse was that his family wanted to go to the temple (he's Indian) and the third time was that he wanted to change it to Thursday and he asked me if I was free and I said yes I was free Tuesday morning but him being annoying didn't bother to check Facebook until late Tuesday night so he made plans with his friends and said that I should of said that I was free in the morning even though I did...
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Well, make sure there are no interruptions next time :p
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Do you two just speak over Facebook? If you text each other then he will surely receive your messages and it's simpler to chat.
I think you should tell him yes, by with an ultimatum. If he gets your hopes up again and fails to follow through then you won't speak to him with the intention of more than friendship (if you'd even be willing to offer that at that point.) -
Wow, yes, any girls out there for me?
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i think you go to hell........:P
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Was that really necessary? That's awkward considering I don't believe in the concept of heaven or hell (not against anyone who does).
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Hmm,maybe you should ask him straight out. Just say hey I like you and I think you like me. But every time we try and make plans it never works out and I was
just wondering why that is. If he mentions prom again and asks you. Just say
I would like to go with you but I'm afraid that you will cancel on me. Maybe
you could go with a group with him. That way if he does cancel on you,you
will still have people to go with. Maybe he is shy and just doesn't know what
to do on a date. Prom is something to look forward too,. Please don't let a guy
ruin it. Have Fun Also if you two are just speaking over facebook you should
tell him everything face to face. Which I understand is the whole problem in the
first place. If you don't talk to him face to face try calling him. It's more personal
then a text message. A text message he could not see or reply back to but if
your on the phone with him then he would have to talk to you.The post was edited 1 time, last by Naughtygirl132 ().
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He's probably just nervous honestly. If he seems interested in prom it's a place where there are other couples so it will be much more comfortable for himNiall ate me signature
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I have a guy friend like this, over facebook/text he'll be flirty and complementary, but in person he isnt so confident. It sounds like the guy you like likes you back but is scared of messing things up. Its unfair on you though, so give him an ultimatum, try and meet up before prom to ensure he will actually follow through
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Confront the guy, tell him what you feel from what he was doing, tell him what are your problems from him so he would be aware. I had lots of friends like that, good in texting, facebook, etc. but not in terms of actual/personal communications. Someday, that guy will be comfortable with you, trust me.
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