There's a girl I know, and...she's wonderful. Her name is Melanie. She's one of my best friends. I love her personality, and I think she's quite beautiful. She's friends with all of the ROTC people too, so that's a plus (since I'm in that).
She has liked me, and I think if I asked her, she would say yes.
I just don't know if I should date her or not. I've been in 3 relationships; first in 6th grade (broke up with me for being "boring"); 2nd in 7th grade (I broke up with her because I wasn't really feeling it); 3rd in freshman year, with a senior (who broke up with me because I was trying to give her space, ie not having kissed her/etc).
All three of these relationships have one common factor: I got pressured into them. I was put on the spot; how could I refuse? Of course, I was weak-willed, and stupid. So that's that. I nearly got pressured into a relationship with Melanie, only this time I didn't want to have another screw up.
My worry is that dating her will ruin our friendship in the inevitability that we break up. But she's strong, too; my friends have told me that she took my rejection really well, and would probably do the same if we broke up.
I think she's awesome. But then, she's good enough as a friend...God, I don't know where to go. I feel like I'll lose interest. With sophomore year coming up, I'm holding out on the hope that I meet someone else, or change my mind, or...something.
What should I do?
She has liked me, and I think if I asked her, she would say yes.
I just don't know if I should date her or not. I've been in 3 relationships; first in 6th grade (broke up with me for being "boring"); 2nd in 7th grade (I broke up with her because I wasn't really feeling it); 3rd in freshman year, with a senior (who broke up with me because I was trying to give her space, ie not having kissed her/etc).
All three of these relationships have one common factor: I got pressured into them. I was put on the spot; how could I refuse? Of course, I was weak-willed, and stupid. So that's that. I nearly got pressured into a relationship with Melanie, only this time I didn't want to have another screw up.
My worry is that dating her will ruin our friendship in the inevitability that we break up. But she's strong, too; my friends have told me that she took my rejection really well, and would probably do the same if we broke up.
I think she's awesome. But then, she's good enough as a friend...God, I don't know where to go. I feel like I'll lose interest. With sophomore year coming up, I'm holding out on the hope that I meet someone else, or change my mind, or...something.
What should I do?
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