Hi guys. Been going out with my girlfriend for 7 months, and it has gone pretty great. She's my first girlfriend, and first girl i've had sex with. I'm 15. I have a lot of feelings for her, and she is a fantastic girlfriend. However now that it's hitting me that this has become a long term relationship, I'm starting to ask myself questions.... I know for a fact that I don't want to spend the rest of my life with this girl. She's great, but not happening in the long run.
She is also cute and pretty, and I love her, but I do find myself wanting to have sex with other girls often recently. I would NEVER even think of cheating, but the urge is still there :/. I know that this won't be the only girl I sleep with in my life, and although I'm for the most part content with our relationship right now I know that it'll fade at some point, and I will have to break up with her. or Vice Versa. We are just too different.
Also, in terms of attractiveness, I know I'm gonna sound like a megadouche but there are sexier chicks out there. She has no curves, and sex isn't that awesome. It's def not just her, but something about it doesn't click. I'd go into details but I think this ain't the place xD PLUS, we never have sex. I can barely spend time with her that's not us sitting right in front of her parents, so we never get any intimate time.
Although so far I've only complained about her looks while and the lack of sex, but while I do consider that a long term problem, I have other reasons for not wanting to spend the rest of my life with her that I need not discuss, because they are concrete in my mind. (Plus most of them are pretentious sounding).
Anyway, what should I do? Do i break up with her now, or wait til it fades naturally. Am i fucked up for wanting to have sex with other girls? IF I break up with her, how should I handle it? I still care about her and don't want her to get hurt (although I know that it's kind of impossible for her not to). SO yea. (Y):rolleyes::wideeyed::eek1::mask::skeptical: love yaa guys :3
She is also cute and pretty, and I love her, but I do find myself wanting to have sex with other girls often recently. I would NEVER even think of cheating, but the urge is still there :/. I know that this won't be the only girl I sleep with in my life, and although I'm for the most part content with our relationship right now I know that it'll fade at some point, and I will have to break up with her. or Vice Versa. We are just too different.
Also, in terms of attractiveness, I know I'm gonna sound like a megadouche but there are sexier chicks out there. She has no curves, and sex isn't that awesome. It's def not just her, but something about it doesn't click. I'd go into details but I think this ain't the place xD PLUS, we never have sex. I can barely spend time with her that's not us sitting right in front of her parents, so we never get any intimate time.
Although so far I've only complained about her looks while and the lack of sex, but while I do consider that a long term problem, I have other reasons for not wanting to spend the rest of my life with her that I need not discuss, because they are concrete in my mind. (Plus most of them are pretentious sounding).
Anyway, what should I do? Do i break up with her now, or wait til it fades naturally. Am i fucked up for wanting to have sex with other girls? IF I break up with her, how should I handle it? I still care about her and don't want her to get hurt (although I know that it's kind of impossible for her not to). SO yea. (Y):rolleyes::wideeyed::eek1::mask::skeptical: love yaa guys :3