I'm seventeen and currently in my second relationship. I ended my first relationship after 4 months because the guy was saying all these serious things about love and it was too much for me. But I am not a serial dater or anything like that, far from it.
The guy I am with now and I liked each other for months before we started going out in September this year. He said I love you first, and i didn't say it back right away. I'm really picky on how loosely that word is used these days and I didn't want to say it if I didn't mean it. I'm not even that physically close with this guy, public displays of affection gross me out and I'm fairly inexperienced with intimacy. And now it's come to constant text messages that I ignore, him asking me to call him, and just never getting a break to just be by myself. It was so brilliant at first. The feelings i have for him are still there but should I feel like this? So claustrophobic in two out of two relationships? I know it's not much to go on and I'm only fairly young, but I'm starting to wonder if commitment is something that just doesn't work for me. If anyone experienced similar feelings, I would love to know..
The guy I am with now and I liked each other for months before we started going out in September this year. He said I love you first, and i didn't say it back right away. I'm really picky on how loosely that word is used these days and I didn't want to say it if I didn't mean it. I'm not even that physically close with this guy, public displays of affection gross me out and I'm fairly inexperienced with intimacy. And now it's come to constant text messages that I ignore, him asking me to call him, and just never getting a break to just be by myself. It was so brilliant at first. The feelings i have for him are still there but should I feel like this? So claustrophobic in two out of two relationships? I know it's not much to go on and I'm only fairly young, but I'm starting to wonder if commitment is something that just doesn't work for me. If anyone experienced similar feelings, I would love to know..