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Going on this delves into family and other topics but it's mostly family based. My mother is of Scottish descent and holds a citizenship and my father is unemployed. For the past couple months my mother has been on the decline in her health and she had become bed ridden. She stopped eating and started throwing up, refusing to go see a doctor because of her distrust for them and she believed that she could cure it herself. I was concerned so I managed to convince her to just get a blood test and it came back with concerning results dealing with her liver. So, her natural doctor (the one that administered the blood test) told to go get a cat scan. She did and they found a lump, she refused to go back to the doctors and I called my aunt who is a nurse. My grandmother died three years ago because of cancer and so I know it runs in the family. We figured that it must've been serious and so I once again managed to convince her to go to Scotland for medical treatment because if we were to do that in America we'd lose our house and be in extreme debt. So now her and I are both in Scotland, our family could only afford two tickets and my aunt had to pay for that. She's in the hospital and the doctors said that if she had been here a day later she would have died.
And now, with that background, here's my current problem. I don't know what to do for housing, education, citizenship, etc,. I'm able to get a citizenship because of my mother, it would cost a great deal of money. I'm currently living in a too small house with my aunt and her kids while my mother is in the hospital, three rooms and four people- five when my mother gets out. And I haven't been in school since last year. I don't want to be a uneducated bum who has to work at McDonalds for the rest of her life and I have no direction whatsoever about what to do.
Plus, I'm an introvert who's terrible at making friends.
Help me.
Going on this delves into family and other topics but it's mostly family based. My mother is of Scottish descent and holds a citizenship and my father is unemployed. For the past couple months my mother has been on the decline in her health and she had become bed ridden. She stopped eating and started throwing up, refusing to go see a doctor because of her distrust for them and she believed that she could cure it herself. I was concerned so I managed to convince her to just get a blood test and it came back with concerning results dealing with her liver. So, her natural doctor (the one that administered the blood test) told to go get a cat scan. She did and they found a lump, she refused to go back to the doctors and I called my aunt who is a nurse. My grandmother died three years ago because of cancer and so I know it runs in the family. We figured that it must've been serious and so I once again managed to convince her to go to Scotland for medical treatment because if we were to do that in America we'd lose our house and be in extreme debt. So now her and I are both in Scotland, our family could only afford two tickets and my aunt had to pay for that. She's in the hospital and the doctors said that if she had been here a day later she would have died.
And now, with that background, here's my current problem. I don't know what to do for housing, education, citizenship, etc,. I'm able to get a citizenship because of my mother, it would cost a great deal of money. I'm currently living in a too small house with my aunt and her kids while my mother is in the hospital, three rooms and four people- five when my mother gets out. And I haven't been in school since last year. I don't want to be a uneducated bum who has to work at McDonalds for the rest of her life and I have no direction whatsoever about what to do.
Plus, I'm an introvert who's terrible at making friends.
Help me.