So I recently have fallen hard for this older guy (he's 24 and I'm 20) who I've known for about 3 or 4 years now. We met at a summer job and every year come back and work with each other. This past year was different though, he invited me to hang out with him numerous times such as movies with his friends and even alone at his families beach house. Never did he make a move.
This past fall someone very important to me passed away and he actually showed up to the wake and sent flowers to me to show his respect.
From time to time after that I would hear from him either through text or seeing him at this other job.
Now over this past winter break he invited me over to his house for the first time and I got to meet his parents, later that night after waiting for forever for him to make a move, I kinda hinted to him that I was ready for him to show me he liked me and he did. He kissed me and we had a nice little make out nothing more. Later he walked me to my car and kissed me goodnight.
3 days later I got a text from him and then haven't heard from him since. Im not too worried about the situation but I would like to hear some outside input.
He obviously like to move slow but sometimes I want to just straddle him on the bed and move forward with what we "are"
Thanks for the help!
This past fall someone very important to me passed away and he actually showed up to the wake and sent flowers to me to show his respect.
From time to time after that I would hear from him either through text or seeing him at this other job.
Now over this past winter break he invited me over to his house for the first time and I got to meet his parents, later that night after waiting for forever for him to make a move, I kinda hinted to him that I was ready for him to show me he liked me and he did. He kissed me and we had a nice little make out nothing more. Later he walked me to my car and kissed me goodnight.
3 days later I got a text from him and then haven't heard from him since. Im not too worried about the situation but I would like to hear some outside input.
He obviously like to move slow but sometimes I want to just straddle him on the bed and move forward with what we "are"
Thanks for the help!
also, it never hurts to send him subtly naughty texts when you're just texting normally. Another thing could be that he doesn't have the self confidence to initiate anything sexual, or he might be waiting for you to. Just try a few different things, but dont seem like you want it too bad because that will make him think about it more.