This is a question that I have been asking myself lately. (This is all rhetorical, I have never flirted with anyone nor has my girlfriend during our relationship.....I think. I'm just simply curious)
If I caught my girlfriend flirting with some random guy, would I break up with her? That would seem like an excessive choice, but now that I know she has flirted with one guy, how do I know she hasn't done it before or won't do it again? And if she can flirt so easily then who is to say she won't take it a step further than just flirting? This is now the paranoia in my head that will run through it for our relationship.
People say a little flirting is harmless, but I know for a fact that I would not like it if I caught my girl flirting with another man. I'm not going to say that I am perfect, but I do try to stay out of flirtatious situations because I know that my girl wouldn't like it (saying I have a girlfriend if someone saying is blatantly flirting or saying sexual things to me).
Does anyone have any insight on this? What are the consequences for flirting and what action(s) would be taken so it doesn't happen again? Any personal situations you have gone through?
If I caught my girlfriend flirting with some random guy, would I break up with her? That would seem like an excessive choice, but now that I know she has flirted with one guy, how do I know she hasn't done it before or won't do it again? And if she can flirt so easily then who is to say she won't take it a step further than just flirting? This is now the paranoia in my head that will run through it for our relationship.
People say a little flirting is harmless, but I know for a fact that I would not like it if I caught my girl flirting with another man. I'm not going to say that I am perfect, but I do try to stay out of flirtatious situations because I know that my girl wouldn't like it (saying I have a girlfriend if someone saying is blatantly flirting or saying sexual things to me).
Does anyone have any insight on this? What are the consequences for flirting and what action(s) would be taken so it doesn't happen again? Any personal situations you have gone through?