Did she have sex other than the rape? If no, she's still as inexperienced as a virgin, so you shouldn't worry about being virgin yourself.

Dude, unless you only date virgins, the idea that somebody else was inside her is going to be a barrier you're going to have to overcome sooner or later

1. How old are you?
2. Did she have a active sex life with her ex bf? And you should probably tell her(if she doesn't know already).

i would just get over it and do it with her..
u cant help the past.. just forget about it

Now maybe I can help with this. First of all I used to date a girl who abducted and raped at age 8 and truthfully we never had any problem's except for the fact she was scared of being alone in the dark,scared of being tied up and was slightly afraid of men. As far as sex go's though we didn't have any problem as long she left the light's on. Grant it me and her no longer date but were still good friend's,without benefit's of course. However the decision is up to you.

Well your going to have to get over it... I mean it's not her fault a guy decided to take advantage of her. And if the real underlining reason is you want to lose it and it be meaningful. Society has risen us up with that our first time should be with somebody who is still a virgin as well. But it's not it can be just as special and meaningful even if your partner has sex before. But I would just block the stuff and move on if you love her you will somehow magically forget about it down the road

I don't think anyones first time was all that special so being a virgin really doesn't matter for you two. If she's over it and she is willing to have sex with you, that's awesome and a big achievement!

If thinking about it makes you angry, try to show her how good it can be, to make her forget about it, if only for a little while :blush: But don't act weird about it... that will make her feel worse