:( i need your help please

    • :( i need your help please

      all i want is your opinion on certain matters, please please, ive been going through rough nights crying everyday, because im going trhough a break up and i just need some questions answered to guide me a bit. i do have further detail but i will write it when i get replies
      1. do you think its wrong to have a wandering eye when your in a relationship? like to not control yourself when you see an attractive person and your partner is with you, to just stare or maybe smile or make eye contact or scan there body. i know that you will see attractive persons but when i was in a relationship (my first one), this may just be me, i wasnt paying attention to anything or anyone else except my partner and if some hot guy came in i just looked away (not that i had a desire for it, it was out of respect). i thought even maybe the odd stare or two, i would even tolerate that but many girls? thats what really broke me. and espcially when we hadnt met for months
      2. do you believe there such thing as "the one"?
      3. do you think porn is wrong for people in relationships?

    • Re: :( i need your help please

      1. just looking? no, I think thats normal.. but dont l like be really obvious and shit in front of your bf/gf... might only work for bi/gay.. but when I had a bf we liked looking together, and imaging what we would do to the guy or girl (my bf was also bi) in a three-way.

      2. dunno, maybe

      3. I like looking at porn with my bf/gfs!
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    • Re: :( i need your help please

      1. Yes, it is normal to find others attractive. Have boundaries ofcourse, don't disrespect your significant other. but if you find someone attractive you are bound to get a quick glance. Staring and glaring can lead to altercations with your boyfriend/girlfriend.
      2. The one, that is a tough. Because it is very easy to confuse that for infatuation. The one isn't just being all in love, its about future goals and success and commitment. This is mostly for long term relationships and shouldn't be used lightly. But through certain peoples eyes, "the one" does exist.
      3. Porn, some people don't mind their partners watching it. Others do. It just differs in each relationship.

      Hope this helps :)

    • Re: :( i need your help please

      Like everyone else already said...

      1. Its fine. Again dont make it obvious. But keep doing what youre doing. sometimes it brings confidence in your partner when you dont pay attention to other hot guys.

      2. I dont know. I have never felt completly in love.

      3.not really. Sometimes its healthy if you or your partnet wants to abstain from sex.

      Hope this helped. ;)