i go out a lot with my friends from school and we alwyas have a great time, but for some reason some of my friends always get guys and give out their numbers, but theyre not particularly "gorgeous", im not trying to sound conceited or better than them, but to be honest, i think im better looking then some of them, judging on peoples opinions. So....why do some girls that arent really anything that special, get guys over other girls that are just as pretty or prettier. I know, I know, it probablty has to do with confidence but I'm the same as my friends and just as outgoing. it drives me nuts! any ideas?
friends get guys over me
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maybe your not as attractive as you think.
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soljah wrote:
maybe your not as attractive as you think.
That is some top quality, A freakin plus advice. great job on that one, no one couldve said it better.
ur probably shy or sumthin, flirt with guys u like n stuff... -
maybe the guys think you are out of their league so they go for girls that they think they could get?
or maybe you give off that bitchy vibe? or an I'm not interested vibe?
there's no way for us to know unless we go out with you and your friends to see first hand....maybe talk to your friends about it? -
Dood. You're also very fucking shallow if you dont get to know these guys. I've dated anyone from skinny and nerdy, to over weight and cute.
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Just wear sexier outfits.
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It acutally pretty much has nothin' to do wif luking cuz getting a guy isn't all about it but how's the conversations going on wif guys or attracting.WOW:)
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dazedandconfused wrote:
i go out a lot with my friends from school and we alwyas have a great time, but for some reason some of my friends always get guys and give out their numbers, but theyre not particularly "gorgeous", im not trying to sound conceited or better than them, but to be honest, i think im better looking then some of them, judging on peoples opinions. So....why do some girls that arent really anything that special, get guys over other girls that are just as pretty or prettier. I know, I know, it probablty has to do with confidence but I'm the same as my friends and just as outgoing. it drives me nuts! any ideas?
GET OVER YOURSELF.
This post is a prime example as to why you don't get guys. You're conceited. Take a look at the other girls and take a fucking leason, I'm sure they're not getting numbers by thinking "i'm prettier than she is."
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I think you think that your looks alone will get you guys to give out their # or ask for yours. I would suggest just trying to be more friendly because maybe you are sending out a wrong vibe.
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dazedandconfused wrote:
i go out a lot with my friends from school and we alwyas have a great time, but for some reason some of my friends always get guys and give out their numbers, but theyre not particularly "gorgeous", im not trying to sound conceited or better than them, but to be honest, i think im better looking then some of them, judging on peoples opinions. So....why do some girls that arent really anything that special, get guys over other girls that are just as pretty or prettier. I know, I know, it probablty has to do with confidence but I'm the same as my friends and just as outgoing. it drives me nuts! any ideas?
You say that about your friends, and wonder why you don't have a boyfriend?[CENTER]To the dumb question, 'Why me?' the cosmos barely bothers to return the reply, 'Why not?[/CENTER]
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Don't judge everything on looks.
Take a look at your personality, and modify it if you have to.
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I think everyone else hit the nail on the head. There's almost always an underlying reason for something. And I'd bet your reason is that you're so shallow that you think the looks are the only thing that matter. Maybe your ignorant attitude towards your friends and your conceited mindset has something to do with no one wanting you.[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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I didnt read the other replys so I dont know if anyone said this or not, but not all guys go formost 'attractive' and actually go for girls with a nicer personality?[CENTER] [CENTER][SIZE=1]
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I used to have exactly the same problem.
You go out with your girlfriends and they always seem to get the guys, get numbers..etc...etc.
The only way that are situations are different.... I'm was never as shallow as you. You are very conceited and you said you were yourself. Seriously lower your uptight perfection standards of guys nd you will get them.
You only seem interested in the ones that will make you look good. You need to seriously get over yourself and actually stop being so bitchy about it all.
Personality is good. Not all guys go for looks. They love girls personality and the ability to hold a decent conversation that you both want to talk about. Not pinky girly things, make-up or clothes. Guys aren't interested in that.
Stop holding out from the decent guys that think your too good for them because of your uptight and snobby attitude.
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# Lower your standards of guys - the nicest ones are usually the ones you wouldn't dare to dream of being with. (Trust me, worked with me)
Hope this sorts you out. Should do!Life is the one thing we are in control of.
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Either you are too hot and guys get intimidated, or you need an improvement on your personality. Maybe you have a reputation of being a whore, who knows!?
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Maybe they are nicer?!?! Not so.. up themselves? Not trying to compete with their friends for guys? I don't know really, think about it! If I was a guy; I would not be asking for your number!:ninja:" The More You Learn, The Dumber You Realise You Are"
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maybe they go for personalty over looks i know i certainly do.
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