Well, i have given my boyfriend head like 6 times so far, and each time he has not been able to get relief from the build up. I know i am usually tired or arent horny enough to have the drive to finish him, but he also said that it might be because he used to masterbate a lot.

So was wondering if anyone here has the problem of excessive materbation hindering their ability to ejaculate.


I also hate how ive been so tired, but still very horny lately. I love to feel him up ad make out, but giving head seems like too much work for my mouth muscles lately. I feel bad that he gets pressure built up so much i havent been able to give him relief.

panicmayarise wrote:

Masturbation might be the reason. Because it kind of helps prevent premature ejaculation. Idk, I haven't had really trouble about this, funny thing is, I can control when I cum. Maybe your boyfriend is thinking of other non-sex related things while you give him head.

Well, we do have the TV on when we do it usually, and both of us get distracted...

And yeah, thats what i was tinking. i dont think ive been giving much effort into trying to sexually satisfy him.