Hello, I am Iceboy and I would like someone to help me with a girl i love, but things got messed up really badly..
It all started when i was in grade 8, when i was going through my friend's phone and i saw a girl's number. Wanting to prank my friend, i decided to steal the number, so i took a picture of the number, just before my friend caught me. unfortunately, the teacher caught us and we both had our phones confiscated for a week. after the week, i was checking my phone, when i stumbled across the number of that girl. I decided to give her a message, just for fun. I did not know her, so i figured it did not matter. I sent her a message saying:
"hey Jade! long time no chat! How is it going?" She replied, saying that she wasn't Jade, but of course i already knew that. so she introduced herself to me and so did I. Lets call her Kelly. Kelly and i spent a few days chatting and i started to really like her, and when she told me that she would be coming to my school next year I was overjoyed! Sadly, i was dumb and i told her i liked her. She said she did not know me enough to date me, so i got rejected, but we agreed that next year we would get to know each other in person.
So fast-forward to the next year, i was grade 9 and she was grade 8. She came to my school and i started to hang out with her, and unfortunately, i realised that she was best friends with one of my worst enemies, Alex. Alex was my friend a few years back then we split our paths. Now she hates me, yet i don't know why. So i started to hang out with Kelly, and we talked a lot after school, and we would chat everyday. (I would like to say that i am not very popular in school, i am a straight A student, and most people in my class hate me, but sadly Kelly is not very bright, yet she has a lot of enemies too.)
So Kelly and I were really close friends, and I enjoyed every second I was with her. I would stay after school to talk and laugh with her, we would play basketball together, she would ask me to help her with computing and such, and i was happy to help, because simply being with her made me the happiest man alive. She was the most amazing person, and I was starting to fall in love with her!
So after a few weeks, she told me some girls were bullying her and they called her bad names and such, so i decided to see for myself. I stayed after school, but told Kelly to go home. I hung out with the girls that were annoying her and I asked them what they thought of Kelly. The trash-talked her, and me being a smartass, i recorded the whole thing on my phone. Later that day I messaged Kelly and sent her the audio of the recording. She was a bit sad, hearing them trash talk her, but then she thanked me a lot for being such a good friend for her.
So i became closer and closer to her, and eventually we became close to best friends. She told me all her secrets... Including personal ones. Her dad left her when she was smaller, and i really felt sorry for her then.
After a month, there was a Walk Event happening in town, and i decided to go. It was an all night event, and it would be very fun. When i got there, i saw Kelly, along with a guy from our school with his girlfriend, and also Alex and her boyfriend. Alex's boyfriend, and the guy at our school, were both friends of mine, so the only person not fitting in with me was Alex. But luckily, Alex was wasted! So i walked the event with them, and it was great, because the two couples were lovey dovey together, and me and Kelly were walking alone for most of the night. I made the most of this time with her, because it was kind of a first date, if u think about it. I ran with Kelly, ate with her, chased her, and had a lot of fun with her. I even complimented her and flirted with her a bit. At one point in the night she said she was feeling a bit hot, and i told her she had always been hot in my eyes . She smiled, a bit shocked, but then laughed with me and I'm sure that made her happy.
After that night, i kept testing her with flirts, and compliments, and she took them well, always responding thankfully and happily. So i decided to go for it. I messaged her, and confessed my love to her. She made excuses, of how she was in a rough place, and that she couldn't date at the time... I told her i could wait for her, but she said I shouldn't. So after the failed attempt, we went back to being friends, but it wasn't quite the same. Then after 2 weeks, i heard she had a boyfriend!
I was furious of how she lied to me, so i told my friends she was a bitch, and that i hated her. None of that was true though, i still thought she was the most amazing girl in the world! Eventually word got around, and she messaged me to ask if anything was wrong. I asked why she lied to me, and why she told me she wasn't ready, but now is dating a guy! She said a lot can change in 2 weeks, and that she really liked him. I just accepted the way things were, and i stopped talking to her as much... I saw her one afternoon at school, waiting for her mother to pick her up, and she was talking to her friend. I decided i would talk to her, so i gathered some courage, and after 15 minutes i went over and said hey. she said hey, and before i could say more, her mom came to pick her up! worst timing ever! As she got her bag to leave, she told me "u were too late".
I saw two meanings in that phrase, as i thought she also meant the bigger picture.
So i hardly talked to her after that, until my birthday, when i got an unexpected msg from her saying happy birthday! I was so happy, I almost cried. I hadn't talked to her for months, but she remembered my birthday! So i thanked her and we chatted for a while. Eventually i wound up asking her if we are still friends. She told me she was still my friend, but that we should not talk at school anymore, as rumors of us dating were going around. I accepted it, and it ended there. Now, she hangs out with a guy one grade above me, and I haven't chatted to her since, she avoids me, and now I avoid her too, because of how awkward it is when we bump into each other.
The most I have gotten is a "Hey" from her. I really miss her, she was the most important girl in my life. I really wish i knew how i could fix everything. I love her so much, the Kelly i knew was an amazing person, in both looks, and her personality! I have cried myself to sleep thinking of the fun times we had.....
Please Help Me, I Need Her Back In My Life......
Any advice would be appreciated!!
It all started when i was in grade 8, when i was going through my friend's phone and i saw a girl's number. Wanting to prank my friend, i decided to steal the number, so i took a picture of the number, just before my friend caught me. unfortunately, the teacher caught us and we both had our phones confiscated for a week. after the week, i was checking my phone, when i stumbled across the number of that girl. I decided to give her a message, just for fun. I did not know her, so i figured it did not matter. I sent her a message saying:
"hey Jade! long time no chat! How is it going?" She replied, saying that she wasn't Jade, but of course i already knew that. so she introduced herself to me and so did I. Lets call her Kelly. Kelly and i spent a few days chatting and i started to really like her, and when she told me that she would be coming to my school next year I was overjoyed! Sadly, i was dumb and i told her i liked her. She said she did not know me enough to date me, so i got rejected, but we agreed that next year we would get to know each other in person.
So fast-forward to the next year, i was grade 9 and she was grade 8. She came to my school and i started to hang out with her, and unfortunately, i realised that she was best friends with one of my worst enemies, Alex. Alex was my friend a few years back then we split our paths. Now she hates me, yet i don't know why. So i started to hang out with Kelly, and we talked a lot after school, and we would chat everyday. (I would like to say that i am not very popular in school, i am a straight A student, and most people in my class hate me, but sadly Kelly is not very bright, yet she has a lot of enemies too.)
So Kelly and I were really close friends, and I enjoyed every second I was with her. I would stay after school to talk and laugh with her, we would play basketball together, she would ask me to help her with computing and such, and i was happy to help, because simply being with her made me the happiest man alive. She was the most amazing person, and I was starting to fall in love with her!
So after a few weeks, she told me some girls were bullying her and they called her bad names and such, so i decided to see for myself. I stayed after school, but told Kelly to go home. I hung out with the girls that were annoying her and I asked them what they thought of Kelly. The trash-talked her, and me being a smartass, i recorded the whole thing on my phone. Later that day I messaged Kelly and sent her the audio of the recording. She was a bit sad, hearing them trash talk her, but then she thanked me a lot for being such a good friend for her.
So i became closer and closer to her, and eventually we became close to best friends. She told me all her secrets... Including personal ones. Her dad left her when she was smaller, and i really felt sorry for her then.
After a month, there was a Walk Event happening in town, and i decided to go. It was an all night event, and it would be very fun. When i got there, i saw Kelly, along with a guy from our school with his girlfriend, and also Alex and her boyfriend. Alex's boyfriend, and the guy at our school, were both friends of mine, so the only person not fitting in with me was Alex. But luckily, Alex was wasted! So i walked the event with them, and it was great, because the two couples were lovey dovey together, and me and Kelly were walking alone for most of the night. I made the most of this time with her, because it was kind of a first date, if u think about it. I ran with Kelly, ate with her, chased her, and had a lot of fun with her. I even complimented her and flirted with her a bit. At one point in the night she said she was feeling a bit hot, and i told her she had always been hot in my eyes . She smiled, a bit shocked, but then laughed with me and I'm sure that made her happy.
After that night, i kept testing her with flirts, and compliments, and she took them well, always responding thankfully and happily. So i decided to go for it. I messaged her, and confessed my love to her. She made excuses, of how she was in a rough place, and that she couldn't date at the time... I told her i could wait for her, but she said I shouldn't. So after the failed attempt, we went back to being friends, but it wasn't quite the same. Then after 2 weeks, i heard she had a boyfriend!
I was furious of how she lied to me, so i told my friends she was a bitch, and that i hated her. None of that was true though, i still thought she was the most amazing girl in the world! Eventually word got around, and she messaged me to ask if anything was wrong. I asked why she lied to me, and why she told me she wasn't ready, but now is dating a guy! She said a lot can change in 2 weeks, and that she really liked him. I just accepted the way things were, and i stopped talking to her as much... I saw her one afternoon at school, waiting for her mother to pick her up, and she was talking to her friend. I decided i would talk to her, so i gathered some courage, and after 15 minutes i went over and said hey. she said hey, and before i could say more, her mom came to pick her up! worst timing ever! As she got her bag to leave, she told me "u were too late".
I saw two meanings in that phrase, as i thought she also meant the bigger picture.
So i hardly talked to her after that, until my birthday, when i got an unexpected msg from her saying happy birthday! I was so happy, I almost cried. I hadn't talked to her for months, but she remembered my birthday! So i thanked her and we chatted for a while. Eventually i wound up asking her if we are still friends. She told me she was still my friend, but that we should not talk at school anymore, as rumors of us dating were going around. I accepted it, and it ended there. Now, she hangs out with a guy one grade above me, and I haven't chatted to her since, she avoids me, and now I avoid her too, because of how awkward it is when we bump into each other.
The most I have gotten is a "Hey" from her. I really miss her, she was the most important girl in my life. I really wish i knew how i could fix everything. I love her so much, the Kelly i knew was an amazing person, in both looks, and her personality! I have cried myself to sleep thinking of the fun times we had.....
Please Help Me, I Need Her Back In My Life......
Any advice would be appreciated!!