I'm 15 and my friends are all having sex. I have tried to talk to boys and I tend to always get to a point where I won't hangout with them because I am scared that they will want to have sex with me.
Is it because I'm just not ready? I haven't dated any of these boys and still feel pressure to take it to the next level. I sometimes feel that the only reason these boys talk to me is for sex, and I like their personalities but it could be in the form of a friendship Obviously I'm still young but I feel like the only one in my friend group that doesn't want to have sex.
Is it because I'm asexual? Honestly I have no desire to have sex or do anything other than makeout and I'm thinking it may be because I'm asexual. The idea of sex just makes me uncomfortable in general. I just want someone to be with all the time and cuddle.
Is it because I'm lesbian? I find girls attractive and often find myself watching lesbian porn. Maybe I don't want to have sex with boys because I don't like boys. I find boys attractive but their sexual organs aren't as attractive to me as girls are. On the other hand, I've never had a "girl crush" or had feelings of desire towards are girl I actually know, and sex with girls sounds just as unappealing as it does with guys.
Sincerely,
a very confused girl.
Is it because I'm just not ready? I haven't dated any of these boys and still feel pressure to take it to the next level. I sometimes feel that the only reason these boys talk to me is for sex, and I like their personalities but it could be in the form of a friendship Obviously I'm still young but I feel like the only one in my friend group that doesn't want to have sex.
Is it because I'm asexual? Honestly I have no desire to have sex or do anything other than makeout and I'm thinking it may be because I'm asexual. The idea of sex just makes me uncomfortable in general. I just want someone to be with all the time and cuddle.
Is it because I'm lesbian? I find girls attractive and often find myself watching lesbian porn. Maybe I don't want to have sex with boys because I don't like boys. I find boys attractive but their sexual organs aren't as attractive to me as girls are. On the other hand, I've never had a "girl crush" or had feelings of desire towards are girl I actually know, and sex with girls sounds just as unappealing as it does with guys.
Sincerely,
a very confused girl.