have you ever worried so much it made you think the worst was happening in the best situation? i'm back together with the guy i've been dating off and on for 11 years, going on 12. and i've been terrified that im going to lose him to the girl i just got him back from. i keep having these hallucinations that he's telling me he's leaving me and i start crying w/o realizing it and he gets upset with me and spends hours trying to tell me that he loves me and he's not going anywhere. i tell him everything is fine and i love him and its the truth. everything is fine. i just worry that im gonna do something to mess it up. has anyone else been thru this? and if you have how did you handle it? did you just get over it or what? please help! i love him so much and i dont want to lose him!!!
have you ever
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If your not meant to be with him then it isn't going to work out no matter how much you tell yourself it will. The more you worry the harder you make it for yourself.
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you should stop worrying and start living!
if you've been on and off for 12 years, let me say, why havent you got engaged/had kids/gotten married?
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we have been engaged and somethings came up and now we are planning on getting the engagement started again..
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does your paranoia keep you from being happy? also i agree with alex
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no i mean im extremely happy. but i lost him once and i cant do that again!!!
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You cant keep smoeone agains his will, if he loves you, no one can take him away, but if he doesnt, he doesnt deserve you.............you cannot force someone to love you and be with you............its just not real.
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Why are you having hallucinations?
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i get in these moods where im awake but im seeing everything in a different way. when he tells me he loves me i hear other things. but its all good now. we've worked everything out. as for keeping him against his will. i never do that. i told him if he didn't want to be with me that he didn't have to. and he keeps telling me he's not leaving me tht he loves me too much to do that. after almost 12 years i have to believe him.
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yourlife wrote:
You cant keep smoeone agains his will, if he loves you, no one can take him away, but if he doesnt, he doesnt deserve you.............you cannot force someone to love you and be with you............its just not real.
^ dudes gota point..
you cant force him to love you..
it hurts to see someone you love with someone else..but what hurts more is that someone unhappy with you.
Just talk to him and tell him your worried..
communication is the key;)If we admit that human life can be ruled by reason, then all possibilty of life is destroyed.
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