Hi,
So I am a bisexual guy (17) and currently am in love with another guy, and have been for 10 months at this point. The main issue is I hate myself for it, and I want to be biologically "normal", in that I only like girls. I have told two of my friends (girls) that I am bi and I like this guy they are both close friends with, as am I (he is my best friend). The first was accepting, as was the second, however, the second then told me that she and the other guy were dating a few days after I told her.
Naturally, I learnt to accept it for a while, I can't make someone, who is clearly straight, fall in love with me. However, after about 3 months of them being together, I am getting really frustrated and am beginning to really hate the second girl. It feels like she just dangles him in front of me at times. I want to move on from him, as anyone would after liking someone for 10 months, but really don't know how. It's gotten to a point where every night, whenever I have a dream and he is there, I see him with her and I can't bear living this way.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to how to move on from someone?
Thanks in advance,
BellSwingingBothWays
So I am a bisexual guy (17) and currently am in love with another guy, and have been for 10 months at this point. The main issue is I hate myself for it, and I want to be biologically "normal", in that I only like girls. I have told two of my friends (girls) that I am bi and I like this guy they are both close friends with, as am I (he is my best friend). The first was accepting, as was the second, however, the second then told me that she and the other guy were dating a few days after I told her.
Naturally, I learnt to accept it for a while, I can't make someone, who is clearly straight, fall in love with me. However, after about 3 months of them being together, I am getting really frustrated and am beginning to really hate the second girl. It feels like she just dangles him in front of me at times. I want to move on from him, as anyone would after liking someone for 10 months, but really don't know how. It's gotten to a point where every night, whenever I have a dream and he is there, I see him with her and I can't bear living this way.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to how to move on from someone?
Thanks in advance,
BellSwingingBothWays